Here are our three most important dating rules for women. These three rules aim to guide you on the most important aspects of dating and steer you away from the common pitfalls that occur in the world of dating.

1. Finding a balance between insecure and arrogant on your first date

First dates are as a given nerve wrecking. And nerves can do one of two things to women. Bring all their insecurities to the surface and spend the date being self conscious and putting themselves down or try and hide the nerves by pretending to be the worlds most sexy and confident woman and coming across as an arrogant dominatrix. Both of which are equally unattractive to men.

Before your date think about the things you have achieved in life, what your interested in and what you want to gain in the future. This will not only distracted you from panicking about your date but give you a confidence boost and something to talk to your date about.

Men are attracted to women who are self assured and confident in what they want. But don’t be so determined to prove your an independent woman that you come across as aggressive. Everyone has flaws and men want to feel that sometimes they can look after you, that you are not so sure of yourself that your verging on taking on the role of dominatrix!

2. Remember that dates are supposed to be fun!

During your dates, women can often make the mistake of trying to hard to impress a guy and forgetting to relax and have fun. Men want a girl that they can laugh with and enjoy themselves, if you don’t relax then neither will he and he may get the impression that you take yourself too seriously.

Show him that you are able to laugh at yourself. If he playfully makes fun of you don’t get defensive, laugh and give him as good as you got.

While trying to flirt or be sexy, women can come across as being too intense. Don’t be afraid to be silly with him. Don’t concentrate so hard on being attractive that you wont crack a stupid joke or pull a funny face. A guy will love seeing this side of you and will find your ability to let go and enjoy yourself very attractive.

3. Keep up the excitement past the fifth date

It is of course natural and acceptable to become comfortable with your boyfriend but when comfortable turns into lazy, the relationship can start to lose its spark as dates start to be monotonous and you both stop making the effort to do something special.

Regardless to how comfortable you feel with each other and whether or not he has now seen you first thing in the morning without your make up this does not mean you should stop trying to impress him completely. Its important to still make an effort appearance wise to show him your still the girl he first started dating and to show you care.

Laziness doesn’t just apply to your appearance but to the way you interact with your partner. If you find your dates are consisting more and more of takeaways and TV, shake things up and inject the fun and romance back in your relationship. I find this one of the most important dating rules for woman as getting lazy in your dating relationship is such a common mistake.

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