So you’re on a date, its going well, and you’ve decided that you want to take things further.
Is there a right way to get a guy to kiss you on a date?
It’s often expected that the man will take the lead in this department, and a lot of women feel uncomfortable initiating the kiss.
So your goal as a woman is to create the opportunity for him to move in for the kiss. Let’s look at a 3 step process to making it happen.
Step 1 – Proximity
Consider how you’re positioned when you sit next to a man.
You need to sit so that you can both comfortably you can comfortably move your face towards his without any awkward maneuvering.
Remember that for a man closing that short gap between your face and his can feel like the longest distance in the world.
Also, as you get in closer, say your words a little more slowly and so he concentrates on your lips as conversation gets a more intimate.
Step 2 – It’s in the eyes
I asked a girl friend of mine (who incidentally is very successful with men) what she would tell women who want to get tips in this area,
“My game is all about eye contact” she says.
What she’ll do is give a guy a soft, slightly lingering kiss on the cheek, then as she pulls away she’ll just let her lips lightly brush near his lips.
Then she pulls her head away and looks up into his eyes (looking up at a guy cute), then down to his lips, then back up into his eyes. Smiles, and holds his gaze.
“This” she says, “is how you get a guy to move in for the kiss”.
Step 3 – The subtle power of touch
The more you can use little ways to establish physical contact throughout the date, the less pressure you put on the kiss when the moment does come.
So here’s the last part of your instructions: Playful touching must be a regular part of your interactions with guys.
If for example, you give him a kiss on the cheek, press your body into him just a little bit to make him aware of your figure.
If he buys you a drink, as you say thanks just very gently squeeze the back of his arm. If you’re sitting next to him, when you want to emphasize your point touch him lightly on the knee. All of these should be done smoothly and without too much emphasis.
Also, if it’s loud and you have to move in close to speak to just lightly rest your hand on his shoulder or on his chest as you lean in.
Little instances of touch like this make men tingle with excitement.
Charge your dates with this kind of sexual chemistry and you’ll have no problem getting the kiss.
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