The 9 Biggest Men’s Turn Offs On A First Date

First dates.

Every relationship has to have them. Unless, of course, you just skipped all that and went straight to a one night stand. But EVEN then you still need some kind date afterwards where you get to know one another.

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Although first dates should always focus on fun, let’s be honest: they are also the quickest way that men and women test each other’s character.

And men notice A LOT.

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What Happened to All the “Real” Men?

I was surprised to scroll through the comments of my last video and find the following complaints:

  • “Modern men are such cowards
  • “A real man should go after what he wants…”
  • “This is beta male behavior…”

I have some strong opinions on this


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If You’re Complaining About “Men!” or “Women!”, You’ve Already Lost…

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I read women’s dating advice (including our own), and scroll down the comments:

  • “If only men weren’t so self-centered…”
  • “I’m done with guys. They care about ONE thing and have no desire to commit.”
  • “Men nowadays are impossible. If they’re so complicated, what’s the point in having them anyway?”

I sigh.

And then just to torture myself further, and for the sake of some perverse kind of balance, I click through the men’s forums to see the angry guys there:

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7 Subtle Signs He’s Flirting With You

It’s funny how often women tell me they don’t know when a guy is flirting.

Because to us men, we think we’re being so obvious.

If you’re confused about whether he’s interested, make sure you learn these 7 sneaky signs…


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9 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Saying Yes

There’s so much dating advice out there telling women how to get a man to commit, but not so much about whether you should commit to him.

Our relationships are just about the most important predictor of our happiness: and there’s hardly a relationship more important than who we choose as a spouse, potentially for the rest of our lives.

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So here are 9 CRUCIAL questions to ask in a relationship before tying the knot, so that you know whether this is a man you could really be with long-term:

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Afraid to Get Back in the Dating Game? This is for YOU

“I’m too old…” “I haven’t dated in 10 years…” “I’m divorced and don’t know how to be single again…”

In my years of coaching I’ve heard all of these fears. And let’s not lie about it: they’re tough things to get over in your mind.

But it’s so important you break through these worries and get back in the game.

This week, I’m going to share an inspirational story that proves the truly attractive mindset that will make you magnetic again in dating.


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Just Had To Show You This…(Amazing Retreat Story!)

 “As a byproduct I got the guy. But that’s not the end, that’s just the beginning…”

I just had to share this with you.

When I announced my At-Home Retreat Program this week on my Sunday YouTube video, the stories came flooding in women who had attended on my live retreat and wanted to share their successes with others who had never experienced the program before.

And I’ve had some responses that have left a lump in my throat. Here’s one from Marnee, who came on a retreat in August 2015.

I’ve had many milestones in my career, but nothing could ever top hearing results like these. I’ll never get tired of reading these stories…

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I Can Finally Tell You (BIG news)

It’s finally time. I’ve been dying to share this news with you for months now.

I can’t even begin to tell you what an amazing milestone this is for me after 10 years of working on my dream.

It’s the missing piece you’ve been waiting for, and I’m so happy to finally be able to reveal it to the world…


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I’ve Never Revealed This Before (WARNING: You May Cry)…

Do you ever get tired of being scared?

You have big dreams and ambitions, but you feel stuck. Like you need some powerful emotional sign to show you it’s ok to leap forward.

Sound familiar? Then you absolutely have to watch this video.


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Should You Send Him That Nude Pic?

The nude pic.

It screams danger territory. You’ve heard the horror stories.

Privacy is an unstable commodity in the age of the internet, which is why you need some clear rules when you decide what naughty pictures to send your boyfriend.

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Some women decide that sending nudes just isn’t worth the risk. “I don’t send those”, they’ll say when texting a guy. And that’s fair. No judgment here if you want to play it safe.

But many of us also know that sending the occasional risqué underwear photo can be a fun part of intimacy, and a great way to turn your partner on from afar.

There is a way to tread this minefield, but you need to be smart about it so that you can feel comfortable and secure going forward.

So let’s go through some essential DO’s and DON’Ts for sending nudes the right way:

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