The REAL Secret to Getting Closure (It’s not what you think…)

Let’s face it, I have a weird job.

This week, if you’ve ever wanted a behind-the-scenes preview into the actual life of a “dating coach” (God, I hate that job title), then make sure to watch this week’s video.

You’ll see some of my personal thoughts on the state of modern dating, as well as one of my most powerful mindset shifts to help you handle your emotional response when a guy flakes on you...


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Exactly What to Say When He Pulls Away

What are the real signs a man is losing interest?

  • He sends less frequent texts… check.
  • He’s less available for dates… check.
  • A feeling of “distance” in the way he speaks… check.

You feel like there’s nothing you can do. But there is a confident, powerful response you can use in this situation that makes him 5x more attracted to you. Just watch this video.


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How To Keep Him Interested After The First Date

He drops you off at your house.

You say goodnight, get in the door, throw your keys on the counter, and smile.

Wow, a guy you’re actually excited about. The conversation was easy, he made you laugh, you even shared a passionate kiss.

But soon comes the anxiety about how to keep him interested…Should you text him right away? Should you say you want to see him again? How available should you be?

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Is He The One? 5 Questions to Know for Sure

How do you know if a man is the perfect guy for you?

Many women assume that he has to tick a bunch of traits on a checklist (e.g. he’s not too short or tall, has the right career, loves animals, plays sports, has his own hair, etc. etc.).

But these are just preferences. They aren’t what really matters when it comes to love.

I don’t know about perfect, but I’ve learnt that choosing an amazing partner comes down to just five big questions.

Make sure you can answer all of these 100% before you decide on him…

How To Make The First Move

couple at a bar

It’s a question that has plagued women forever: Can I make the first move on a guy?

There are many reasons why a woman can feel uncomfortable doing this. She might get rejected. She’s been told by society it’s her “role” to wait for the man to approach. She doesn’t know what to say.

So to make this much easier, let’s look at three scenarios that show how to make the first move as a woman but without putting yourself on the line.

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The Major RED FLAG You Should Never Ignore in a Man…

It’s so easy to ignore all the warning signs from men.

You like him. He has a good career. You have amazing sexual chemistry. But there are things that you know make him wrong for a relationship:

  • His wandering eye…
  • His emotional withdrawal…
  • His selfish, narcissistic behavior…

If you’ve ever been tempted to stay with a guy despite everything your gut tells you, please watch this video now, before you do anything else today.


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How To Meet A Guy At The Gym

I’m not going to pretend this is easy. Well, actually it sort of is easy. But doing it takes a little courage.

Most women wouldn’t believe how much 99.9% of men would love to meet a woman during their daily workout.

Think about it: If he’s into taking care of his health (or sculpting his guns), and he sees you doing the same, killing it in your figure-hugging yoga pants, he’s going to know you both already have something in common.

man and woman talking at the gym

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Fifty Shades Darker in REAL LIFE…

50 Shades of Grey is a weird story. 

Christian is a hot, emotionally-damaged billionaire with some crazy ex girlfriends and a craving for sadomasochism.

Ana is the young, bookish wallflower with whom he becomes totally obsessed. Before they date, he even makes her sign a contract to state which kinky activities he’s allowed to perform on her in the bedroom.

Umm… can anyone say major red flags??

I really don’t want to spoil this week’s video, but all I’ll say is, this is how the trailer should have gone…


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Why Writing “No Hookups” Won’t Stop Bad Guys

Stephen Hussey

I’ve noticed a curious behavior on dating apps like Tinder that always dumbfounds me.

It’s the common habit of women writing something like the following on their dating profiles:

  • “Not here for hookups!”
  • “If you’re only interested in sex, swipe left…”
  • “Don’t bother messaging if you only want something casual…”

Whenever I come across such profiles, I always shake my head and think to myself: Why would you write that?

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8 Reasons Why He’s Not Texting Back

Don’t you hate the “texting game”?

You fire off every message, each one your little arrow hoping to strike his heart, and then your watch begins…you become the silent guardian of your smartphone, just waiting for the moment went it chimes to let you know he’s text you back.

Only sometimes that moment never comes.

woman texting confused

But here’s the thing: it’s not always your fault.

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