The Dating Game Has Changed. Here’s How YOU WIN

Since I started Get the Guy in 2008, the world of dating has been turned upside down. Back then, people were embarrassed to even admit they went for a drink with someone they met on the internet.

But now… women are told that they live in a “hookup culture.” They hear that everyone is flaky (and they have to accept it). They’re told to settle for the next acceptable guy that comes along.

If you don’t buy any of these myths (and you shouldn’t), watch this video to hear my crucial first step to master your dating life in 2017…

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Things To Look Forward To

Stephen Hussey

Someone once told me a secret to happiness I’ve never forgotten: “You always need to have two things to look forward to.”

“Why two?”, I asked.

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Here’s Why Men Cheat

You can explain why cheating happens, but that doesn’t stop it from being completely indefensible.

So, for the record, I don’t think cheating can ever be justified in a relationship (after all, if things are that broken or intolerable, you can always leave).

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But it does pay to understand the psychological reasons that lead different men astray…

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This (Innocent) Phrase Scares Great Guys Away

I can’t believe how many women still write this on their Tinder profiles.

This toxic phrase scares off a huge amount of men, yet it feels like at least 25% of women do it.

I’ll show you a simple shift that gets a guy to chase you, instead of pushing him away…

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When He’s Not Investing in You, Avoid This Mistake

Let’s face it: We live in a flaky dating culture. People don’t text back. They cancel plans on the day. Or maybe they just don’t try hard enough in the early stages.

So how should you respond when this happens?

Many people make a huge mistake in their reply, which you’ll see from a real woman’s comment I discuss in this week’s video.

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How To Get Him To Settle Down With You

Ok, you’ve been dating a guy for a while, he stays over your place all the time, and you’re definitely exclusive.


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How do you get him to “settle down”? You know, like actually decide he’s REALLY with you for the long-term, instead of him just seeing this relationship as being “ok for now”?

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Feeling Insecure? This Video Will Change Everything

I couldn’t resist sharing this woman’s incredibly powerful story with you today.

She faced one of the most difficult, biggest setbacks I could ever imagine in her love life, and came to me for advice on how to get a guy to like her as more than a friend.

Maybe you struggle with your own insecurities (like I do).

This video is going to give you the #1 practical mindset shift to shatter those pesky doubts within minutes…

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10 Signs He Has A Commitment Phobia

Commitment-phobia, does it exist?

Well, yes.

But I’m not going to analyze why some men (or women) are terrified of relationships in the first place. It could be for many reasons, but it’s not your job to be his therapist and figure it out.

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What matters is that you don’t waste time on the wrong kinds of men in dating.

So here are ten signs to tell if he has commitment phobia so that you can back away before you get hurt later on:

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He’s Stringing You Along? Text Him This Now…

Quick quiz: How do you respond when a guy gives you mixed signals in his texts?

He sends a few texts, then goes cold for a couple of days. Then he texts you again… and disappears for another 48 hours. Do you…

  1. Get mad (and text him to let him know)
  2. Never speak to him again
  3. Use my #1 texting technique for effortlessly putting yourself back in control and drawing him to you.

If you chose C (which I hope you did), you’ve got to watch this video.

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The 9 Biggest Men’s Turn Offs On A First Date

First dates.

Every relationship has to have them. Unless, of course, you just skipped all that and went straight to a one night stand. But EVEN then you still need some kind date afterwards where you get to know one another.

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Although first dates should always focus on fun, let’s be honest: they are also the quickest way that men and women test each other’s character.

And men notice A LOT.

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