Should You Be Ashamed Of The Booty Call?

In this episode of LOVELife we talk booty-calls…

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  1. linda says:

    I am like a booty call or friends in benefits with an x and it came from me and hes helping me out. we both know where we both stands.we both know we are never getting back together. its been a year and a half. thing is in a relationship we dont get on.we better off as friends

  2. Nickie says:

    I agree with everything you said in the video. I think I’ve learned that booty calls are ultimately unsatisfying. Even if you don’t want to date the guy, you can still get hurt. Having sex with someone is never really simple, no matter what people try to tell you.

  3. Maya Morgan says:

    Thank you for clarifying this topic which is very important!

    I think It all comes down to being clear&honest with our needs and understanding the other person’s needs. I like your message of taking responsibility for putting ourself in our place. It is our choice to respect and accept that we may not have same needs as the guy we are seeing and it is our decision to erase the scene when he tells us he doesn’t want more. We just can’t force anybody to want the same things as we do. I think at the end of the day it’s crucial that we can feel comfortable in our skin knowing that we are doing things according to our values and needs. Thank you for not saying “It is right or not right to have a booty call” but going deeper in the topic helping us understand the principles that lays behind this subject. We must lay on the table the situation and than actively choose what we want and be okey with it. :)
    Thank you Matt!
    send you love&hugs always

  4. Cathy says:

    I needed to hear this – thank you!! It is hard to let go of something when it leaves us (temporarily) with nothing, but I can see it is necessary to get what I really want. Like you said once, “I want to be with someone who adores me.”

  5. lynne says:

    Thankyou Matthew-reading this has helped me reach an important decision. I started sleeping with someone over a year ago who is the love of my love, but who firmly said he didnt want a relationship. I carried on because I adored him and loved the sex with him, even though we do have a relationship now, it is tainted and full of sadness for me because of its origins. I have decided to end it now even though it is heartbreaking; and I will NEVER enter into an arrangement like that again.

  6. Kathryn Green says:

    Matt,
    Again, you are completely right. Thank you for explaining the scenarios with such clear reasoning. When you are in the situation it doesn’t feel so clear cut and it’s very easy to kid yourself.
    Your book is amazing. As with this article, it all comes back to staying a top class woman and not settling for what you really don’t want deep down. I think it’s harder for women to be emotionally detached when they are in an intimate relationship of any depth, be it casual or serious.
    Kathryn : )
    ps I think some men find it hard to be honest with themselves, let alone with a lady in a booty call relationship!

  7. Susanne says:

    *♥♥♥*Good day to you too Matthew :) *♥♥♥*

    ♥*** Today is a good day because you are here ***♥
    ♥*** Thank you for loooooooooooooving us again ***♥
    ♥*** Your LOVE is so wonderful and special: Every time you are here :)Protecting us from all kinds of dangers ***♥

    ♥*** If Matthew Hussey is here & if he connects hearts, who needs booty calls? Who needs pain? :)***♥

    ♥*** Nobody ! Not even 0,000000000000001 % of pain! ***♥

    ♥*** I agree :) It’s all so so so so true :)
    Human beings are precious & deserve 100% looooooooooooooooooving :)Every moment of each day :)***♥

    ♥*** I believe in true LOVE: I believe in Mr/Mrs Right :)
    How lovely Matt emphasized that so many times in his beautiful videos :) ***♥

    ♥*** The thought that Mr/Mrs Right exists will fill our hearts with LOVE :) & if we keep this thought in our hearts….it will give us hope :)

    ♥*** Today Matt mentioned one lovely special word: Power :)
    Power to resist everything that is no good,i.e. bootycall.
    To keep all bad energies away :) Wow :) That’s amazing***♥

    ♥*** If Mr/Mrs.Right really exist and we have not met him/her yet, why not start sending LOVE to him/her now :) with all our hearts ;)♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ It could be fun :) ***♥

    Maybe he/she will receive this message and will feel it in his/her heart :)

    So if a guy/woman shows up and wants to blind-fold a woman/ guy with bootycalls or with anything else….
    well by that time the men/women who kept the loving thought of Mr./Mrs Right and who already started sending him/her hearts will be
    way too busy sending hearts to Mr./Mrs Right, who they believe exist somewhere on this planet :)

    &
    If he/she meets Mr/Mrs Right wow :) it will be one of the best moments of his/her life :) & he/she will know he/she has already sent hearts to him/her before even having met him/her :)

    So I’ll keep what Matt said in my heart and be prepared for the best moments in life :)

    Put all energy in loooooooooooooooooooooooving :)

    ♥*** 100% NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO to bootycalls :)***♥
    ♥*** 100% YES YES YES YES YES YES to true LOVE ***♥

    Thank youuuuuuuuuuuuu for this amazing topic Matthew Hussey :) One of your best videos :)

    It was fun watching and commenting ;)

    Have a beautiful lovely day :)

    Susanne

  8. Emily says:

    Hi Matthew,

    I was wondering could you maybe talk about techniques you use to stay natural and creative when you’re in the spotlight? When I’m nervous I clam up and my sense of humor gets strained, but you always seem to be relaxed no matter the circumstance.

    Love your topics!

  9. Rumors says:

    The women that are in the category 1 are not there for validation. We just like sex. It´s simple.

  10. Jill says:

    I totally agree guys should be honest and girls should believe a guy when he say’s he just wants to play BUT I think it’s really sad that sex has no meaning to some people. I know I’ve said this before but it becomes a recreational sport and it’s not designed to be one. I feel there’s a reason why emotions come with having slept with someone and if you feel nothing after then something is wrong. People we are not dogs don’t put us in the same category.
    With all that said, I do hope you have a lovely day :)

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