The Next Minute Could Be The One That Changes Your Whole Love Life

I’m sitting here less than two weeks out from my new TV show and book release (both on the 9th of April) and it’s a very surreal moment.

Advanced copies just arrived in the post, and it’s the first time I’ve had my hands on the real thing.

It’s a pretty special moment to be holding the book for the first time.

As I open it, between the dedication (to my mum of course ;) and the first chapter, I read the epigraph that I chose:

“This moment contains all moments” – C.S. Lewis

The meaning I take from this is that in this moment you hold the power to every other moment in your life.

Right now you have a huge array of decisions you COULD make, actions you COULD take, paths you COULD embark on. Which one you choose will determine which of the many roads you go down.

(Photo: BrianJMatis)

This beautiful sentence to me sums up what we do at GetTheGuy. I’ve come to learn that the smallest things we do are the things that generally have the biggest impact on our lives.

When a woman comes to me worried that guys just see her as a friend – or one of the guys – she usually can’t see that she is just ‘millimeters’ away from being seen as sexy or feminine. The tiny things she does in the way she touches men in a more masculine manner, or the odd word that suggests a friendship rather than a sexual connection are what determine how she is seen.

When a woman worries that she comes across as cold and unapproachable, it’s not because of anything major she’s doing wrong. It’s the small stuff. The way she turns away too fast when a guy gives her eye contact. It’s because she doesn’t smile just a couple of millimeters more with her mouth to show she’s non-threatening. It’s the way her answers to a man’s questions are just a few words short of seeming interested.

And of course, it’s the same in relationships. The moment you kiss your partner passionately for no reason at all. The 10 second call you make to tell someone you are thinking of them. The little present you bring them that cost $5 but shows you were listening when they said that thing two weeks ago.

Often we become overwhelmed by the amount of things we have to do to reach a desired goal.

I meet people all the time who are overwhelmed by the concept of going from single to meeting ‘the One’. “What am I doing wrong?” “Where should I be going?” “What do I need to be doing differently?”

If this moment does indeed contain ALL moments – every possible future outcome for your life – then what you do right now will change the picture of your life one day from now, one year from now, and even ten years from now. But nothing is served by overwhelming yourself with anticipating this change in any given moment. Instead, focus on the tiny shift you can make right now.

Pick one way to do this in this very moment.

And remember… There’s nothing bigger than the little things.

Matthew xxx

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As you know my book is coming out in less than two weeks. If you are wondering what ‘little things’ you can do in your love life to find and create an incredible relationship with an amazing guy, grab a copy. You won’t regret it.

Pre-order your copy of Get The Guy now…


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  1. Kristi says:

    Funny that this came up “The Next Minute Could Be the One That Changes Your Whole Love Life”. I came over to the site to double check the date for your Dallas tour date and location, so I could see about a hotel. So I could decide if I would be able to make it or not. I hope I can, I enjoy hearing your perspective (a mans perspective) on things.

  2. rissa says:

    hi matt :)!!! Thanks a lot!!! all the emails you send to me is great,it help me a lot.Every thoughts you have is excellent :) you touch all girls heart ;) i am lucky or my i say we lucky to have you MATTHEW HUSSEY :) you are HERO for the girl like me!!! thanks!!!! CONGRATULATIONS for your book,t.v shows and your you tube :);) God Bless You!!!!

  3. Faydra says:

    Hi Matt,
    I love your book and news letters, very insightful.. I was wondering if your coming to Boston anytime soon?

  4. Leslie says:

    Hey Matthew. So.. excited your book is coming out in a couple of days here in the U.S. I’m going to Barnes & Nobles that day. B.T.W you didn’t come across needy..lol

  5. Samah says:

    Hey Matt,
    Such an amazing article , seriously ..great work.. it made my day & every think you write jst keep reminding me how beatiful , amazing & strong woman iam & that i deserve to be happy ..you give me every thing i need ..we all are very lucky to have you XOXO
    P.s : Congratulations for the book& the t.v show.

  6. Nitti says:

    Hi Matthew,

    I have seen all your you tube videos recently, just because they were interesting, although I have been with the ‘Man of my dreams’ from the last 6 years and we are getting married next month.

    Well, I was just curious on what should I do in my last single month, things that I would never be able to do again or what? Would love to know your response to this.

    I wish you all the luck for your book release and the show which are both just 2 days from now.
    They will be a Hit! Am sure.

    Love,
    Nitti

  7. Sonja says:

    hi matt

    just pre ordered your book on Amazon and i hope it will arrive soon.

    congratulations on your work. the emails from you are making me happy, make me think things over, adjust my behavior and slowly getting me in the direction of being a happy, beautiful and confident woman! thank you so much!

    good luck for next week
    sonja

  8. sally says:

    im so glad you can now share with all women what we realy need to know Matt,well done and wish you all the good luck you need

  9. nabila says:

    i’m always intrested to read what you write, and i always like it and answers questions in my head so thank you soooooooooooooo much you’re the best :)

  10. Misha says:

    Love that Matty.Brilliant as always. Thank you.

  11. rakia says:

    great job !! you deserve it

  12. rakia says:

    Great job!! you deserve it

  13. Diane says:

    Happy Easter Matt! That’s a great step for you :)
    congratulations and I can’t wait to get a copy!
    for all the options in the world, you give us motivation and the confidence to actually take… -the road less traveled-.
    I can’t help but agree with everything you say.

    congrats again x

  14. Charlotte says:

    Matthew, good afternoon!

    It’s great to know you are releasing a book and this extract seems to be very reasonable indeed!

    The thing is, recently I’ve met a guy and I straightaway understood he was THE ONE. There was chemistry when we first talked (although now I think it’s just him being friendly and open-minded), he invited me to an event of his and we spent a great time together, had drinks with him and his friends, until someone else told me he has a girlfriend.

    Needless to say I was obsessing about him before (when texting or sending instant messages,for example), because he took a long time to answer, but right now I’m just devastated. Every second I am next to him I feel great, morally, intellectually, physically, I feel protected and valued. And it feels they took everything away.

    I want to be honest, so I admit, relationships have always been important to me, I think they are a vector of my life. And right now, having a smart,kind, absolutely down-to-earth man of your dreams right there and knowing that he is committed (to someone older than him) is kind of killing me. It also makes me want to give up, and think maybe I am one of the cursed girls who “have it all”, but whose love life is screwed up.

    Well, anyway, back to your article, it made me think that maybe a smile a little larger or a look in the eyes a little longer made him understand? although I think I did everything I could to hint about my interest.

    If you read it, then thank you, and I hope you will take into account this niche of your audience, who is out there, meeting guys, lowering the standards and having absolutely no luck whatsoever coupled with broken hearts.

    Have a good day :)

  15. novalee truesdell says:

    dont worry matt, i like you
    nova

  16. Hilppa says:

    Thanks for the text, made my day again :)

    I’m waiting your book so eagerly right now! I can’t buy it right away, ’cause I don’t have enough money, but I promise, that as soon as I get my pay check, I’ll be ordering it! ;)

    Best wishes
    Hilppa

  17. kaoutar says:

    Thank you so much for your article i really enjoyed.CONGRATULATIONS for your big success you deserve it.Don’t never forget that you are incredible and you know how much i admire you.I was just thinking about you and all the accomplishments that you have made.brilliant.I wish so hard to meet you in the future or maybe attanding your retreat program also buying your book.it’s kaoutar from MOROCCO. With love.

  18. Andrea says:

    ‘There’s nothing bigger than the little things.’ How True!
    I will keep that in mind! And spread the word…:) Thank you and good luck with the TV show and book release!

    Love Andrea

  19. anna says:

    hey matt, your AMAZING.. looking forward your book in cyprus doesnt matter if crisis.. keep up the good works we love you.. <3

  20. Laula says:

    Thanks Matt, that was really helpful, And congrats on the book and the show, we’re so proud of you :-)

  21. joy says:

    Wonderful, I always love ur articles & I love u too

  22. Susanne Love says:

    Ps. If it is the best to write YOU here I kiss lovely Hosana that it was possible to write YOU here :)
    Even if I could not write you messages- I believe lovely Hosana knew why :)& I wish YOU & your family a beautiful goodnight :)

  23. Sang says:

    Hi Matthew congratulation on the book ans the tv show. You inspire me since the first time I watch your YouTube Video than attend the seminar. Hope one day wil fulfills my dream like you

  24. Cassi says:

    Great statements made in your article. I can’t wait for your show to premier. Did you change your book cover? I thought there used to be two hands when you did the caption contest…

  25. Amil says:

    U giving me hope! With the millimeters away thing.
    Can’t wait to have your book in my hands!

    And what if he doesn’t want to commit right now, to me or any other one! Is it millimeters away too?

  26. Julia Parker says:

    :) XO
    Awsome article.

  27. Anastasia says:

    you’re absolutely right as always! :p
    today i’m very happy to say that all your advice has finally payed off! not for me, but for my sister, to whom i constantly told bits and pieces from your articles and videos depending on her situation.she used to be one of those girls that guys only want to be with in bed, you know? but now she’s found a great guy- following most of my(which was yours) advice- and i hope everything works out well..i’m so proud and happy for her :)
    thank you so much for all you are doing for us. i really do wish you all the luck with the show and your book :)

  28. Adria says:

    We love you!

  29. Aylin says:

    Hi Matt,
    thank you AGAIN for the reminder of the millimeter shifts and the constant encouragement! Your timing is impeccable! You are making so many people feel good and happy, I hope you are getting a lot of love and happiness too!
    take care,
    xoxo Aylin

  30. Emma says:

    Great article!! Still think I’m a lost cause though!! Keep up the good work :-)

  31. Jill says:

    My problem is sometimes I like the guy so much and have so many thoughts running through my head that I can’t think straight then I just sound and look silly:( What do you do when you really want the guy to know you adore him but he makes you so nervous (in a good way) you just don’t know how to control it especially when you can’t remember the last time someone made you nervous and giddy. I don’t fall often but when I do it’s pretty big

  32. betty says:

    Thanks Matthew.. Honestly, mean that.
    I’m barely going to turn twenty in a few days with a beautiful three year old son and already in life I’ve lost allot of my self worth.. I was down in the dumps one day about the father of the kid and how my hopes for our love and our happy family were perishing when I finally decided to do something.. And I found this. All this time I’ve been reading every email and learning that much more that I do matter.. So for that I thank you. The dad and I may not be together, but I can already see that he’s learning to value me just like you taught me to value myself
    Love you Matthew – Beatriz Sanchez <3

  33. HV says:

    You, Matt, are one of those random things people come across in the world of YouTube and can’t get enough. Hooked from day one!

    You are so full of it! Ha, but of the logical and practical sort! I was in LA last week and had a women question me in the parking lot right after your seminar ended. She asked if you’re really “legitimate.” This almost made me laugh because if 4 hours didn’t convince a person if YOU are or aren’t, not sure what would. =D Anyway, my reply was short and simple. It is that if you can make sense out of it then that makes it legitimate. And I am all for that, logic & sense!

    Know that I and many are enjoying your blog and look forward to your complete volume of Get the Guy. Keep us all posted on your book-signing “moment” on the east coast, please! Love yah!

  34. Tina says:

    Hi there Matt,

    Am first to admit, I’m deeply emotional.
    After reading through your thoughts, naturally I became a little bit tearful – it touched me, at a core which obviously stirred my heart strings.

    Your understanding of the subtle things of ‘connection’ and explanations of them, in your commitment to help and re-assure, is truly from someone who only wants true happiness, for others.

    Btw, I have pre-ordered your wonderful work.
    And, having read some of the introductory excerpts, am fascinated with the instant way you immediately wrap your ‘angel’ wings around us.
    Thats the heartfelt feeling, which comes across.
    It feels secure knowing, you are so genuine, in your love of people.

    Thanks for your thoughts today, Matt –
    And so incredibly true

    I love your passion & commitment
    You Amaze me!
    Tina x

  35. Lisa G says:

    Your advice is universal. Everything you say applies to so much more than just one’s love life. “Thank you” doesn’t seem sufficient. Expect lots of hugs when you come to New York. Actions speak louder than words, and I warn you now — I’m a hugger.

    Lisa G

  36. Angela says:

    Hi, Matt!

    I’m going to gift myself by attending one of your 5 day retreat seminars within the year, and I live in Asia. After all, I deserve only the very best, right? ; )

    Wishing you the very best life has to offer,

    Angela

  37. Elisa says:

    This blog was written at the perfect time for me!

    Life is a culmination of all of our little moments, it’s so important to make each one count.

    Thank you Matthew!

    P.S. Your personality really shines through in your writing. It’s so refreshing to see/read how genuinely passionate you are about helping others.

    I can’t wait to read your book,and I’m so excited that you will have a whole new platform for reaching people.

    All the BEST!

  38. Leticia says:

    Hey Matt!
    Jesus Crist, that’s the second time you’re mentioning those millimeter shifts, and in fact I already was about to comment already last time. I have quite the opposite problem from being seen as merely a friend and believe me it makes life hell. And I’m not even having the happily ever after either!!!! I would give SO SO much to be able to just be seen as a friend instead of somebody guys want to chase down, drag into bed or get married to!!! And with this I do not intend to imply that I’m so wonderful hot or amazing that men just can’t keep their distance. It’s just seriously awful if you don’t find a job where the girls hate you and the guys hit on you, write your thesis without being hit on by your prof as every other student does or have male friends. My female friends don’t want to go out with me any more since they claim not to get to know any guys when I’m around and others won’t even have me meet their new boyfriends!!! I have absolutely NO idea what I’m doing different from your regular girl next door… So please do explain some more about those millimeter shifts, or a private lesson about “how to get rid of the guy (without being impossible)” or something!!! Thanks so much!!!! XXX,

    • Elle says:

      Honestly Leticia, when I read your comment, I felt as if I was the one who wrote it! I’m in the same situation than you. I have to focus on work right now, and every one (guys) seems to – like you said – hit on me! So much that it’s hard for me to focus. I’m just “me”, always trying to see the good sides of things in life, always seem to be happy, joyful, optimistic! What are those things in behaviour we’re doing “wrong” Matt?

      • Leticia says:

        Hey Elle!!!

        Probably the thing we’re doing wrong is that our focus is set elsewhere, not on men! On the other hand it might not be helpful to be too excessively nice to men, maybe, at least if not interested. In my opinion I treat everyone the same, though, men and women… It would seriously be amazing to hear what you have to say, Matthew!!!

  39. Elsa says:

    I just got here from the mail (it was not needy, just plain adorable!)
    xx :)
    I’m going to london for a few days, I’ll say hi if I see you!

  40. Ess says:

    One of the things I greatly appreciate about you, Matt is that you are very respectful and kind. You seem to care about yourself and everyone around you with an awareness that is present…confident…a knowinf for how to take it up a notch.

    I just pre-ordered your book and look forward to receiving and reading it!

    Here’s to many more awesome times for you and your team!!!

  41. Tamara says:

    Hmm.. Thank you for showing us (again) that “the little things” in life determine what the next (great!) thing can be. Action-reaction.
    So with a little change/adjustment (from us), a whole other reaction can be triggered. This just shows that we have to become more aware of how we react towards others and if we look deeper why we react like that. What needs some adjustments? Very deep stuff.. I like it..!

    Thank you for sharing!
    x Tamara

  42. Zsuzsanna says:

    This moment contains all moments… Couldn’t be more true… You have changed my outlook on life and on relationships forever… Wish you all the success in your career and in your private life… Zs xxx

  43. Adri says:

    Just pre-ordered your book. Love all your work Matthew, you have a real gift. Please continue to touch people´s heart and inspire them. Oh and come to Brazil sometime. =)

  44. Anna says:

    Wow, this inspired me to be productive! Matthew, next time you’re going between American and Europe, make a stop in Iceland. I’ll show you around, it’ll be fun! ;)

  45. Reem says:

    Hello Matt
    I have an exam today , wish me luck

    • Matthew Hussey says:

      Good luck!!! x

      • Reem says:

        Great news I did great in the exam , I expect to get 90% of the answers correct :D . I am so happy and my Spring Holiday just started.
        my previous reply was 2 hours before the exam and I could not resist reading the whole article very quickly and replying.

        We are so lucky to have you Matt , first time I watched your video in August 2011 I was like why I did not know about this person before !!!.
        But before that I saw you once in Plain Jane show in March and I liked your advices that you gave to the girl in the show and then I totally forgot about you and I did not even know that you have an online website. and One day in youtube in August I was searching about “guys advices for girls” and I found your video and I said oh he looked familiar.. where did I saw him.. and yeah I remembered you, from that time magic happend in my life. I just got back my life I am totally a different person comparing to that time. I just keep growing everyday. I am happy with my level now and I look forward for more. I just keep telling my friends and family about you, your video and your upcoming book and I am so excited and they ask my why are you so excited haha , I answer them they will never know what I am talking about unless they watch one of your video. Unfortunately, there are not a lot of videos for guys , most of them are about girls issue and dating. But I am persistent haha they got to watch your videos and read your articles.

        Thanks a lot

        I wish you a magical life.

        Reem with love

  46. Patrice says:

    So lovely! And so encouraging! xo

  47. Celine says:

    I’ve got my popcorn, and my girls and we are ready for love!

    Congratulations Matt, it’s really awesome to see your hard work and dedication pay off – your passion really shines through everything you do.

    Cheers,
    Celine

  48. Amanda says:

    Ya know what…? Just simply reading that you took a quote from
    C.S. Lewis made me recognize that I could trust in the wisdom you bestow. It’s had to follow the wise words of another as sometimes there are hidden agendas (more ways to make money), but Matthew – I am impressed by you and that quote alone let me know your intentions are pure.
    :) thank you, Amanda

  49. De'Ann says:

    I’m in a long-term relationship (7 years) with a man 13 years YOUNGER than myself. It drives me crazy when I know that he spends time w/ his best female friend. She’s young, cute, petite! Everything that I am not. But I’m freaking AWESOME!!! She can’t hold a candle to me (at least that’s what I telling myself) I am learning to control my thoughts of negative things, and my jealous actions… “in this moment, and all moments I choose to be a bigger and better version of my AWESOME self”

  50. Red Apple* says:

    PPS: So proud of you, Matthew!^^ And so glad that we are witness of your increasing success in bringing souls together :)

  51. Red Apple* says:

    Wow, … I could never think of those tiny little things to be noticable. But from a psychological point of view- of course!! :D
    I am a person that smiles really a lot – at everyone! But this my problem- I tend to give guys the wrong impression sometimes…eventhough both sides want friendship, they tend to take a little more distance when I do something more polite… I don’t get it! Am I not supposed to be polite – am I too polite? Is it possible to be too kind to people!`? I hate to fake arrogance, you see ? I’m a giver and I don’t need anything else as a reward than a happy face as an result…:) Please, tell you understand me? <3

    I'm so confused :/

    Love xoxo

  52. zoe douglas says:

    Your website has changed my life in a very short space of time. I have always been passionate and successful in my life in terms of work, friends, travel and health, but never had much confidence in approaching or being approached by men…..until i came across you. :)

    Last week i walked into a trendy intimidating store where a gorgeous guy i have seen for a while works, and i asked him out with me!! For me this is completely out of character and i could not believe how empowering this was, or the fact i actually did it ( i have to say it did take about 3 weeks to pluck up the courage)….unfortunately he has a girlfriend, but was very nice about it all and he said i made his day and had he been single he would have!

    It made my day, and showed me that that one inch shift in your thinking can potentially change your mindset and in turn your life.

    I cant wait to see the next topics next month will bring for me. x

    • Reena says:

      Hi Zoe – that’s a cool story! Can I ask how you did it exactly? what was the lead up and what did you say? How did you make yourself not freak out?!

      • zoe douglas says:

        Hi Reena :)

        Well i have liked him for a few months and have spent a fortune going into the shop and buying nice clothes :). He is always very flirtatious,and gives me the butterflies.

        So after much deliberation, and walking past the boutique, I went in one afternoon with the intention of asking him out… we spoke for a while, again quite flirtatiously. I left the shop and went to work,as there were 2 co-workers in the shop at that point. I called him 30 mins or so later, and he said he knew who i was….which really helped.

        I said…I hope you don’t think this is crazy, but would you like to go out with me sometime. He told me he had a girlfriend, but if he did not he would for sure have went out with me. We laughed about it, and he told me to keep coming in the shop, after i said i would start shopping online now :) He thanked me for making his day and that no one had ever asked him that before, so he felt i had a lot of guts and it was very admirable.

        If your thinking of doing it…DO IT. It has changed the way i think about it all now. Who cares if they say no, if they are weird about it and rude, then they were not a great catch anyway, if like the guy i asked is cool and happy and confident about it all, then at least i know now and can move on to someone else :)

        Good Luck, let me know if you go for it. x

  53. Sisy says:

    Now I understand why when I ordered it online I was after I finished all procedure at the end I was told it will be delivered to my device on 9th April. I was so surprised when i got that message since I just saw this book ( maybe it was another version) at the airport book store but it was very pricey and decided to get it online. Now I know the answer…..can’t wait to get it in my kindle

  54. Kathryn says:

    Matthew, glad to see you still have your sense of humour intact with all the exciting developments going on ; )
    Reading your light-hearted remark of your books dedication I was reminded of Michelle Obama saying one of the things to gauge the worth of a man is to look at how he treats his Mother. I think she has a valid point there!
    Small things being so relevant is a huge idea, will have to think on that one for a while ……
    Lots of love
    Kathryn xxx

  55. panee says:

    Great article! Needed to hear this today..perfect timing. Thanks! Cant wait for the tv show/book!

  56. Gabrielle says:

    Dear Matt,

    I want to thank you for all the messages that have been brightening up my overspammed inbox for the past weeks.
    I have met a really nice guy and he lives near me. It’s the first time I am actually dating someone who doesn’t need a train or a plane to get to me, maybe I was scared, but now, I don’t mind. I like being able to enjoy the little things we do together and if it works out, it would be great, if not, no worries, at least I am enjoying every minute of it.
    I have also forwarded your messages to a friend of mine and she was helped so much with them.
    Thank you so much and please, keep this up like this and make many more women as happy as I am :)
    Oh and I will definitely try to get my hands on a copy of your book!

    Love,

    Gabrielle

    • Matthew Hussey says:

      Thanks Gabrielle!

      I’ve been in a few long distance relationships and know it’s tough. Glad you’ve found a great guy near you – it certainly helps with the little things.

      M

  57. Carmen says:

    Oh Matt, congrats on your book!! Can not wait to see you in NYC.. It’s true what you said about a millimeter making a difference!! I tested it today. I like to smile and haven’t over a year.Let’s just say I”ve had a cheesy smile all day because of the complement I got. I’m on cloud nine.

    Gracias,Amor
    Carmen

  58. Janey says:

    Hello Matt
    Would u like to meet up sometime, with me?
    X

  59. Rumors says:

    It reminds me of the movie Amelie because of the remark that Amelie does to enjoy de little thing of life. This is more or less related to what do you say, it is not?

  60. AB Nardi says:

    Here’s a sexy one by ole C.S:
    “That is what mortals misunderstand. They say of some temporal sufferring, “No future bliss can make up for it” not knowing that Heaven, once attained, will work backwards and turn even that agony into a glory.”

    Oo it sends shivers down my spine ;)

    LOVE!

  61. Christa says:

    You said if I didn’t click it, then i don’t like you….
    Still don’t like you ;)

  62. Sabrina says:

    Wow. I love that Mathew. I was meditating (a new practice for me to stop the “mind chatter” for a moment) and a thought came to me that I wrote down….”I’m fundamentally a worthwhile person, living a fundamentally worthwhile life”. I looked at it and thought, that’s a great way to see things. Then, I opened my eyes & picked up my phone & saw a new email. This one from you & read the above blog post. I think this tiny decision to see myself & my life could actually be major. Our culture & media has so many of us comparing ourselves to other ppl & ways of life (usually to sell products or something), when actually, we’re worthwile, just as we are. And our lives are worthwhile as they are, too, even if it doesn’t seem like it becuase we’re not making a huge impact. But it all counts. Our tiny decisions about ourselves matter as much as the beat of a butterfly wing.
    I’m so happy for your book & TV show to come out & have them on my calendar (plus I told all my friends). I keep trying to set up my DVR to record “Ready For Love”, but it doesn’t seem to record that far in advance. Anyhoo, my friends & I are ready for love & I think this is going to be a great year for all of us :)
    Best of luck & we’ll be watching!!!!! xoxoxox!

  63. Jade says:

    absolutely this is exactly why I will be wearing the best decorated bunny ears this weekend hula hula hula!

  64. Raksha says:

    Matt,

    You are incredible and you know how much I admire you.. I was just about thinking about you and the life changing stuff you do, when this mail dropped into my inbox :). Hope you be blessed with all you desire in life!

  65. Rebecca says:

    I do like you. Seriously.

  66. Jen Kelchner says:

    This was exactly what I needed to hear for both my business and life today. I teach people this same principle in my Life Coaching business but I’m a bit thick when it comes to applying it to my own life in terms of seeking love. Seriously game changing thought for me today! Thank you, I so needed that shift in mindset today!!

  67. nurlianne says:

    A short article but with a very precise message, little things do count. Will keep this in mind for the future. Thanks Matt xx

  68. Carley says:

    So dang happy for you Matthew! You rock and are an inspiration to people all over the world.

    So excited for your book.

    Best,

    Carley Lanpher

  69. Ana says:

    Inch by Inch… and enjoy the ride! thanks Matthew and best of luck!

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