Breakups are incredibly hard. It’s one of the worst types of pain there is.
But closure can come faster than you expect with a simple shift in the way you choose to think about your ex, and yourself. I’m sharing this powerful shift with you today…
Answer me honestly… How often do you celebrate your wins? And how often do you agonize over your mistakes?
For most people, the answer is that they’ll spend (maybe) 30 seconds celebrating their successes… but hours, days, years, and even decades berating themselves for their slip-ups.
We have to change that. And that starts with taking a new approach to our relationship with ourselves…
I saw the rest of my
life as one thick calendar, with each sheet representing another year left on
earth.
And that calendar,
although already far smaller than I’d like, gets even smaller when I substitute
“total years left” for “total healthy
years left”.
Once that idea truly
took hold, I couldn’t push it out of my mind.
I was shaken immediately out of any blasé idea that I could simply sit back and wait before I dived into all the creative work, travel, friendship and romance that I wanted to suck the marrow out of before the reaper inevitably arrives to escort me out of the party.
I don’t think it’s healthy to become too neurotic about time. But we squander our healthy peak years at our peril. Especially when it comes to love.
So with all that preamble about mortality out of the way, let’s ask the question: is casual dating a waste of your precious remaining time on this earth?
Vulnerability is hard for everyone. And while this struggle is universal, men have an extra layer of complexity because so many have been taught to believe that their value is in their ability to appear “strong.”
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It’s when you like someone, and want more with them, but they’ve shown you (through their actions or their words) that they are not willing to give you more. They don’t want a relationship with you.
And yet, here you are, continuing to text them, speak to them on the phone, see them in person, and hook up with them.
If you can relate to this, watching this video is literally the most important thing you can do right now.
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