Wasted Your Love on the Wrong Person? Watch This. . .

In today’s video, you’ll learn why you can’t blame the you of the (even recent) past for not meeting the bar you’ve set for yourself today.

 If you’ve been wondering how to get your confidence back—the kind that can help you make peace with the decisions of your past as well as change what’s possible for your future—then you can’t miss this week’s discussion.

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When to Quit a Relationship

Not a day goes by that someone doesn’t ask me,“Should I break up with him?”.

Today’s new video could end up saving you months or even years of pain by providing you with the questions you should be asking when making this big decision.

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Don’t Make This Common First-Date Mistake

Ever found yourself slipping into the therapist role with a guy when what you really want is to create deep attraction with him?

In this video, I show you how to escape the “therapist trap” with a guy so that you can keep building the attraction and tension that leads to a second date.

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Bad Sex + Fantasizing About “Changing a Man”

Last week’s video led to some of the most interesting comments I’ve ever read on our videos.

While we don’t do a lot of two-parters, we couldn’t help ourselves when it came to this topic. We decided to correct some errors in our last video and then do a deep dive into why so many people are enticed by the idea that they can “fix” another person.

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Sex/Life, Penis Size, and Male vs. Female Insecurities

Get ready for a saucy video this week.

Today, we have flawlessness at our fingertips—how is reality supposed to compete?  In the comments, I’d love it if you shared a unique feature you appreciate about yourself. Those features are beautiful stories that are too often erased by the sweep of a filter.

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How To Respond When You Embarrass Yourself. . .

Prepare yourself: This video is an honest reenactment of how embarrassment plays out in our heads. If you’ve barraged yourself with questions during your own mental press conference, I’d love to read your story in the comments.

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Too Unsexy to Date? The Truth About Body Image & Attraction

In this week’s video, my brother Stephen and I dig into a fascinating study in which nearly half of the people surveyed said they would call off a date if they weren’t feeling great about their body that day.

I hope this video inspires you to go a little easier on yourself, and I’d love it if you left me a comment letting me know what you think.

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What We Can Learn From The Dark Side Of Anthony Bourdain

When I heard of Anthony Bourdain’s passing in 2018, it hit me hard. And when I recently watched the new documentary Roadrunner: A Film About Anthony Bourdain, it drove home some of the reasons why his death left so many people reeling.

Whether or not you’re familiar with Bourdain’s work, you won’t want to miss this week’s video, in which my brother Stephen and I unpack some of the life-changing lessons from the film.

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Are Dating Apps Making You Feel Hopeless? Watch this. . .

My brother Stephen and I have been having a lot of fun with the podcast lately. This week’s video we took from a recent really popular episode. Consider this a kind of “halftime report” for the year—providing an overview of the dating scene right now.  I love reading your comments (sometimes they even inspire new videos!) and hope you’ll leave me a note with your favorite takeaway from this week.

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How To Feel Secure Again After Your Trust Has Been Destroyed

When someone’s betrayed or hurt us—especially when we didn’t see it coming—it’s hard to avoid the lack of trust that latches on to us and shadows us into our next relationship.

In this week’s video, I share 8 rules to regain trust after you’ve had your heart broken.

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