When your calendar clicks over to February 29th this Wednesday, take a moment to relish the sight of this special date, a number you won’t find in your calendar again for another four years.
This Wednesday is a Leap Day, that rare occasion where the Gregorian calendar sneaks an extra day into the year, bumping us up to 366 days instead of the usual 365.
What’s more, this mysterious extra day goes hand in hand with a romantic tradition. According to an old Irish legend, St. Patrick made a pact with St. Bridget that on a leap day women should be allowed to propose to men – a modest concession for the rights of women perhaps – but nevertheless, at GetTheGuy we see St. Bridget as a pioneer of the message we have been spreading for the last 4 years: Women NEED to get more PRO-ACTIVE when it comes to finding happiness in love!
Sometimes romance needs more than a little push from the heavens; sometimes it needs a colossal kick up the backside from your sharpest-toed stilettos!
Why modern dating advice is holding every woman back
This leap year is for women everywhere. Women who are fed up with crappy advice that tells them to wait around for the perfect man to come and carry them off forever. We read this advice all the time. The kind of advice that tells us that any real prince charming should be so madly in love with you at first sight, that he’ll make all the moves, all the advances, and all you’ll have to do is be your pretty little self and wait for him to top it all off by requesting your hand in marriage and whisking you off into the sunset on his white horse.
And if he fails to see all of that in you from first sight, well hey, screw him, guess he wasn’t that into you in the first place.
Yet, why is it that advice books for women never assume the simple truth about men. Like, the fact that every man finds it the most difficult of all to speak to the women they are attracted to? Or the fact that he’s absolutely terrified of you rejecting him front of his friends? Or that (heaven forbid) he’s shy and desperately wants to find any excuse to meet you?
No, it can’t be any of that stuff. If he really wanted you, he would make the effort, right? Best wait some more.
So we wait…and wait…and wait…[click here to continue…]
Want some real dating advice for women? Your friends are great. They know you, they know your dating history, they know the kind of men you go for, who better is there to get advice for relationships?
But let me ask you this: Has the approach you’ve taken got you the results you want?
The mistake that I encounter the most when coaching women is the absolute belief they have in the wisdom of their friends.
Yet with most of our friends there are two things you should know about their relationships:
a. They just fell into them by sheer fluke
b. Their relationship isn’t as good as it looks
As a result, these friends often give us terrible advice.
I became passionate about starting a company that offers dating advice for women from men to fight this problem.
How to get a date in the next week
Let’s talk results.
How can you get a date within a week? Women will tell you never to approach men and they are right in principle but low on imagination.
What you are going to do for the next week is take every opportunity to talk to the opposite sex.
Every time you are interested in someone you see you are going to say this; “Hi, you don’t know where there’s a coffee shop around here that isn’t Starbucks?”
Before he answers say “You don’t work for Starbucks do you?”
When he says no (which I’m guessing will happen most of the time) say “You just gave me a face that made me think you were offended.”
Further steps – How to get his phone number
The truth is most men don’t have the confidence or skill to turn the opportunity in to a request for your phone number.
But – The longer you keep conversation flowing the greater the chance he will feel comfortable enough to ask for a date.
Try and make the exchange increasingly more personal. Ask him if this is the area he lives in, comment on his accent, see if this leads to where he comes from.
When you feel you have a good rapport with him say that you don’t really know any good places around the area, and comment that you really need a tour guide.
To be frank, if he isn’t able to take this opportunity then he is not of high enough value for you, you need a man who is sociable.
Our approach – Creating your own luck
The thing about dating advice given from men is we know what is attractive and what isn’t.
It is difficult for women to lead interactions; women don’t like it and neither do men. But you can work around this by structuring the interaction to present clear opportunities for the man to pick up on.
He will still think he pulled you because in truth, he did.
We believe in women being an active participant in choosing their partner.
Remember: You can either WAIT or CREATE!
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