Is he quirky, or is he CRAZY?
It can be a fine line to toe, but having sat down with Jameson and brainstormed the giveaways, we think we’ve cracked the code…
7 Signs You’re Dating A Crazy Person
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Hysterical !! Keep making us laugh – this was way too funny.
Thanks!
This video is crazy.
I’m like that with spiders, I can also get very irritable and annoyed. I am not crazy.
My ex however was the calmest person who never lost his temper. He was charming and everyone loved him instantly. He was the one who was living a double life with 2 women for 4 years as well as being a habitual thief and stealing 10s of thousands of pounds. He had no anxiety whatsoever or he wouldn’t have done what he did. He was the opposite of what you say, yet the craziest person I’ve ever come across. I get that this is meant to be a funny video, but what you’re saying is simply untrue.
Anna…girl, I have absolutely been a victim of one of those crazy, manipulative, best con men ever, men and let me tell you that while I don’t believe at all that anything that Matt said in this video is untrue, let me tell you that no one could ever see that guy coming.. He is so far out of the box that we’re not even talking normal crazy here. The man you described is the one I was a victim of, is in a completely different league.. More like a criminal one, and that’s how they go undetected. Matt is talking way less serious crazy stuff. I’m so sorry you had to go through it and I understand, 7 years later and I’m still paying for the mistake of saying yes to my crazy guy.
LOL. Though I may be crazy that I won’t get in that bed if there are fleas in the house. Nope. And tea is just hot water and a bag most times. I’m with you on that one.
Thanks for this vid. I think it’s all about what you can live with. Crazy or quirkly, the person probably isn’t going to change this behavior. So again it’s about standards and which things make you walk away.
Singing Disney songs is not crazy. Having your house decked out like it’s Aladdin’s palace? Wanting me to dress up like Jasmine? Crossing the line for me. But to each their own.
Matthew: Great to see you laugh so much. You’re definitely bonkers – join the human race – and now I’m really listening.
Thank you for making me laugh so hard that it hurts. When it comes to the dog though, my dog always wins so here’s to being a little bit crazy :)
Thank you for watching Louise! :)
When Frozen came out at the cinema, I saw a commentary from the makers saying they didn’t initially write Elsa to be so quirky, her character evolved that way and they kept it as it made her more endearing.
I have a friend in our circle, keen and becoming bolder who phoned to ask us to a live music, picnic event he had also posted out to all on social media. I tentatively said yes and soon got a phone call back with him opening the phone call shouting Nooo, this carried on for a while. I’m thinking wtf ! when it occurred to me my son replies to messages and he’d obviously typed No. I knew he was quirky, now I know he’s crazy. It’s good I found out now and can laugh about it. We must not date crazy people. Of course there are crazy, dangerous people out there and they will always give you clues, you must just learn how to read them. No matter how subtle. It is not your place to change, treat, or help them, we are not mental health professionals. There is clearly a problem with stigma and taboo in society around this issue, around anyone with a disability, one I feel deeply concerned about.
This is a lovely light hearted piece, Matthew obviously has a heart of gold and a wonderful sense of humour. An underlying serious message to this is his work in making sure we all make the right choices in choosing a partner and how crucial that is to our life and well being.
Kathryn x
Could not agree more, Kathryn! I understand that some people were offended because they have a disability or something out of their control and I believe it was taken to heart, when really this was as you said, a light hearted piece meant to bring laughter, never to call out anyone or offend,…and at the same time, reminding us to be safe. Well said!!!
ok, I am definitely one of those worst people because this was so funny! I am sending this to all of my friends in hopes that they will love you as much as I do it after they see this. Funniest sh*t ever!!! also, you.. Crossing the line….(the pillow scene)was perfect!!!! Lmao!
Haha thanks!! Glad you enjoyed :) X
I wanted to comment on this earlier, but couldn’t figure out how to do it from my mobile.
The video about crazies is a riot. But, having lived with a crazy narcissist, I can tell you, it’s pretty accurate. However, women need tools to figure out crazy very early on before they get sucked in. Unfortunately, we often already have kids or are engaged and heavily emotionally involved before we figure it out. It took me 15 years to get away from my ex, and I still have been struggling for the last 8 years to get the child support. 23 years of life sucked miserable by a narcissist.
Nofyah
Trailers are good, if I’m going to pay over £7 to see a film I want value for money. I could have a word with the cats I guess, and if you don’t introduce the tea bag to the water then add too much milk, what can I say to that?
But if the guy is lovely and likes animals, trailers and wants to learn how to make me a tea (the way I like!) well, we might just have a keeper!
The video reminded me of ‘how to lose a guy in ten days’ cringe crazy!
Brilliant Matthew :)
That’s a great movie! Great observations too! Thanks Lianne X
The funniest video so far..
I mean SERIOUSLY, how difficult of a task is it to measure out 2.33 ounces of 1.5% milk to create a proper cup of tea- come on! =0)
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WELL DONE! I love the learning with laughter.
Appears you struck a nerve with some overly sensitive people.
As you’ve said, if everyone likes you, your not taking risks.
Hi Jameson!
Exactly! ;) Thanks for watching Leecis! I’ll tell Jameson you said hi! Xx
Matt if you are going to sing a song for gods sake know all the words
From me to you:-)
Aladdin: I can show you the world
Shining, shimmering, splendid
Tell me, princess, now when did
You last let your heart decide?
Aladdin: I can open your eyes
Take you wonder by wonder
Over, sideways and under
On a magic carpet ride
Aladdin: A whole new world
A new fantastic point of view
No one to tell us no or where to go
Or say we’re only dreaming
Princess Jasmine: A whole new world
A dazzling place I never knew
But when I’m way up here, it’s crystal clear
That now I’m in a whole new world with you
Aladdin: (Now I’m in a whole new world with you)
Princess Jasmine: Unbelievable sights
Indescribable feelings
Soaring, tumbling, freewheeling
Through an endless diamond sky
Princess Jasmine: A whole new world
Aladdin: (Don’t you dare close your eyes)
Princess Jasmine: A hundred thousand things to see
Aladdin: (Hold your breath, it gets better)
Princess Jasmine: I’m like a shooting star
I’ve come so far
I can’t go back
To where I used to be
Aladdin: A whole new world
Princess Jasmine: Every turn a surprise
Aladdin: With new horizons to pursue
Princess Jasmine: Every moment gets better
Both: I’ll chase them anywhere
There’s time to spare
Let me share this whole new world with you
Aladdin: A whole new world
Princess Jasmine: A whole new world
Aladdin: That’s where we’ll be
Princess Jasmine: That’s where we’ll be
Aladdin: A thrilling place
Princess Jasmine: A wondrous place
Both: For you and me
Thank you :)
Your welcome!
I have completely overdosed on the Man Myth and Impact and the best I could come up with was the lyrics of Aladdin, I’m thinking I should go back to month 1 :-(
This video strays a little further from the usual value you provide in your other videos. I honestly love your stuff, but I come to this blog for insight and knowing how to master adding value to other human beings.
I understand part of being generous or adding value is humour – I agree. I adore frivolity! I’m just not sure if these types of videos belong in this space?… I wonder if it may serve to water down the power of your other content on this blog?…
I think your entertainment is great and it seems as though you’ve been increasingly embracing this aspect of your personality which is wonderful!… creating a space purely for creative expression might work…
I just don’t correlate mastering interpersonal relationships (particularly the one with your future soul-mate) with ‘light-heartedness’… I see it as something precious and I see this as a space of integrity and learning to be the best versions of ourselves.
With respect – I appreciate that you are taking risks and creating.
Zoe
I’m going out on a limb here Zoe. If you want to see Matt in his upper most serious mode, where he has every aspect of your interest at heart and bends over backwards, goes to hell and back and ends up even more spent on energy in your corner than you do… Go do his retreat! I went 3 retreats ago and I can’t even imagine the power he is delivering nowadays!
I don’t work for him, wish I did, but I can tell you as a retreat graduate, he will turn your life on it’s head!
(Even in his humour, there is underlying grit).
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You’re gonna get that bent over tea?! In America we don’t even see the point of tea unless it’s in a glass with ice and lemon. Now coffee….that’s a whole different story. Black with just a shot of cold water so that I may drink it without burning my tongue. Coffee is worthy of a hissy fit : ). Love the videos Matthew.
Haha Coffee is worthy too :) X
I’m sorry but in many writings of yours (Matt) you spell recognize with an S when it should be with a Z:)
That’s the difference between English used across the commonwealth and American English. As he’s English he’s spelling recognise correctly.
Amen Chris
Yep, note the accent. Matt’s genuinely English which will mean organise, recognise, socialise, analysed… will be in English English. His Brother is at Oxford so I think Matt would be shunned by his co-writer/Brother/all time great guy, if he went All-American.
I could barely pay attention to the rest of the video after that pillow scene, LOL!! Good one, Matt! ;)
Glad you enjoyed Lourdes :)
I might be crazy, every time I watch Aladdin I sing both parts of A Whole New World…oops lol.
HILARIOUS! Regarding tea. It got made so poorly growing up in my household I learned to take it black and strong enough to dye my hair. Anything to avoid milky tea. = QUIRKY. See I’m self aware.
You just described, every man I ever dated. Very insecure, korky turned crazy. It’s happened so much, thought that was just normal for a guy. I kept thinking, is it me making him feel on edge? Sometimes he would throw a bit of a fit. I would sit there and think…this guy is mental or has a screw lose. Still hopeful in finding that somewhat normal guy.
You will Kelly! My programs are a great way to find and keep your Mr. Right :) http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/products/ Xx