How do you make yourself a challenge that a guy wants to keep chasing? How do you naturally make a man value you for weeks, months, and even years?
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What Makes You Undervalued by Men…
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I LOVE you, Matthew. For giving a s#!t and having the interest level and loving women enough to do what you do. For finding out what it’s really like, what the actual issues are and speaking to that. Please develop a program to train men to act like real men and learn what that really means, not macheesmo, misguided masculinity gone roid-rage, and learn how to respect and treat women right and what to do with the women who do not reciprocate respect instead of taking it out on all other women thereafter. What women in the Texas video said and a lot of what was in the Miami video, is exactly what I have encountered in Seattle, WA and I have just stopped dating all together because it is difficult to find a real man, my own age who does live up to my standards. There seem to be few people who live up to just the basic levels of cleanliness, common courtesy and common sense, much less above it. You come across as having more than two brain cells to rub together and actual character content to boot! And you’re not exactly unsexy. ; ) Thank you : )
Thank you Matt for these videos. I feel like you are there to support me in my search for love, I almost want to wear a wristband ‘What would Matthew do?’ to remind me. As a UK citizen it is valuable for me to see USA women views on dating in their cities. Here in Newcastle Upon Tyne we have our own culture, but now I am starting to think that meeting guys during the day (as your Chicago girls said) is a whole different world which feels more positive to me. As 40yr old mum, I felt like going to pubs was something I’d have to put up with in order to ‘get back out there’, but I’d feel a lot happier, fresher and more alive if I could meet and speak during the day. I am attending a crime writing seminar next week and will certainly use your fantastic, miraculous tip of saying hows it going to everyone close to me and ask names. If a guy said hows it going to me and asked my name the way you did, Id be absolutely buzzing. Especially if he was then sober enough to remember it again an hour later. I will always follow you even when I do find love, as you got us ladies’ backs. Thanks for everything. Celia
Hi Matthew,
Loved the video, it was insightful and this was different to the usual videos which made it more interesting as well. I found it useful that you shared about the importance of leading an extraordinary live, beyond just the dating aspect. Thank you for the videos!
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I really got something out of this. My problem has been that I buckle and give in compromising my standards that I have for a guy. I need to learn to remain strong. I’m worth more than that. And my standards ate good. I want to wait for that extraordinary life and learn to be happy within myself.
Matt pls I need ur help on our to forget guys nd concentrate on my career,I need to b strong
This is interesting and I wat h a lot of Matthew’s work. However, when a question is asked here there are no replies. Is this not the place to engage in asking questions of Matthew? Left hanging out there doesn’t feel good.
Love it matthew .. guess my communication skills need improvement or something . I seem to get guys that are sarcastic and try to belittle me ,as part of their flirting with me . I’m not ok with it but how far do I need to go to communicate my displeasure
I keep my relationship on
Great video! Like this new format. I totally agree that it comes down to working on yourself. Once I STOPPED ignoring my standards, made my standards known it was like a filter and the quality of men I attracted improved!!!! I’ve grown a lot from your teachings and this one hit it on the head. Thanks Matthew keep up the great work!!
I had a famous guy after me on insta he ask me to send pics I felt so pressed to do so and was afraid he wouldn’t talk to me if I didn’t
But I didn’t and I told him I loved chatting with him but if he wanted to get to know me better call me or come vist me but I had not time for games but time to get to know him
He sent me a message back say he respected my honesty and if he was ever near my home town he would like to catch up for coffee haven’t heard from him again but I know I m worth more than fame and riches
Hi Matthew, the dating scene in Miami is very much similar here in Dubau, United Arab Emirates, that even if i already place standards in order for me not to be seen as hook up only, still i did not find any men who are into real meaningful relationships because they will just tell me that I am arrogant and making myself important and they don’t care if they cannot get into me for a hook up only becuse they are confident that there are a lot of other women after me whom they can have a hook up with. They are always on to the next person and never settle for anybody because they thought the city is so big that they dont run out of women.