3 REAL Cures For Loneliness…

I realized a huge truth about getting rid of loneliness that I didn’t mention in last week’s video.

Learn this simple-yet-powerful concept, and you’ll have an essential tool to create happy, meaningful relationships and feel connected again…

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  1. I related to this video so much, I started sobbing while I was watching it. My partner has pulled back from me and I feel very lonely and disconnected. We don’t really TALK anymore. In the way you mentioned, having meaningful conversations and feeling connected in a meaningful way. I’ve tried remaining vulnerable and open so he feels safe to do the same, but now when I feel loneliest is when I open up to him about something and he isn’t interested. I feel like he is sick of me. I’ve also tried not bothering him with things but it leads to feeling very isolated disconnected because I don’t feel like I can share the things that are important to me.

  2. Hi Matt
    I cannot thank you enough for all you do – not only with your amazing advice on dating but life in general.

    I start out shy but once my comfort level is good, I open up. The more I trust a person, the more I let them in. I am very passionate and excitable by nature and one of the rules I live by is to build people up instead of tearing them down. I am fascinated by people – why they do what they do, why they think what they think and I always want whomever I’m talking to to know that they have my full attention and that I appreciate them for who they are and what they have been through.

    I am no stranger to vulnerability. I often show that side of myself and maybe, I show it a little too much sometimes but like I said, if I feel comfortable with someone and I want to know them well, its only fair that they know me too.

    My success rate of people returning that vulnerability is pretty low and often, my own sharing pushes others away. I try to remind myself that I should never regret being kind to someone and never regret opening up to them but this is where my loneliness kicks in and I can’t help but to feel rejected because I showed them who I am and they walked away.

    It’s tough to be true to myself and keep being kind and vulnerable when I know there is no guarantee of someone appreciating it enough to stick around and build a connection with me – and this goes for my friends as well as in my love life. Yet, not being vulnerable with people is not an option for me. I don’t want superficial, I want real and like you said, we cannot wait in life for others to make that first move, it has to start with us.

    And so I continue making that first move over and over again hoping that others will see the value in it too and I can find that something real that I am searching for. I’m tired of the rejection and the loneliness and really ready for deep connections.

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