An Interview With Ernesto Arguello From Ready For Love On Sociability

Recently I interviewed a friend of mine who is by far and away the most sociable guy I know.

This is someone who is completely clued-in to building a network of people in a new place, making new friends in an instant, and getting ingratiated into the right parties and social circles (all of which are things that should help massively with the December challenge).

For those of you who followed Ready For Love, you’re in for a nice treat, as the person I’m talking about is Ernesto – one of the bachelors from the show.

Follow the principles Ernesto talks about here and you’ll have even more of an edge of making things happen this December. Enjoy!

To find out more about Snap2Live, head on over to Ernesto’s website


From The Video

Here are Ernesto’s mindsets to having a great time and meeting new people.

1) Enjoy life

‘My focus is on wanting to enjoy life. I want to make sure that something good comes out of everything I do and everywhere I go. Whether it’s having a good time or having an impact and helping someone – I want to make the best of my time.

When I go to places and put myself out there, I’m doing things that I enjoy doing so that at the very least the people I meet there will have something in common with me.’

2) ‘What’s the worst that can happen?’

You don’t need a support system of friends everywhere you go. You can take the risk and go alone. If you’re scared of being by yourself, guess what, if you stay at home you’re going to be by yourself as well!

There’s a mental barrier that people put in their lives. The truth is, you shouldn’t. Just strike up conversation and say something fun. (You can find suggestions here in my December Challenge Guide if stuck for ideas).

Why assume the person you want to speak to isn’t a nice person and won’t speak with you? Take the chance.

3) Be your BEST self

If you remove agendas and intent and all you have is two people trying to have a good time, then you’re liberated to being the fun, cool version of you.

Socialising and networking is a skill like any other. It’s something that you get better at and that becomes more natural the more you do it.

4) Say Yes

This is one of the rules in the guide. The only time you’re allowed to say ‘No’ is if you’re double booked. Start taking chances and trying new things.

Question Of The Day:

What one thing has this interview inspired you to go out and do? Use this as leverage for getting out there and doing something you wouldn’t normally. Commit to it right now and let me know what it is you’re going to be doing in the comments below!


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Not texting while driving, not drinking and driving, and buckling up can prevent over 80% of road related deaths.

Something I talk about on my Retreat programs is that for everything that we want to condition ourselves to do, we want to have a button or a trigger that acts as a reminder for a certain thought.

The Snap2Live belt can act as both a reminder of these things – and as a great conversation starter to help you in getting out there to meet new people. Grab yours here.

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36 Replies to “An Interview With Ernesto Arguello From Ready For Love On Sociability”

  1. Great as always Matthew, but I’ve decided that I am not going to do the challenge, I don’t have the confidence, so just letting you know that I’m bailing out, but will still enjoy hearing other peoples success,

    Angela K x

  2. HI matthew i can your answer your question of with all honesty.

    Me and me Twinsister turning tommorow 16 years old that means i´m aloud. To go out my twinsister is not that type of going out me either but i´m gonna do it. I´m not really that person that talks much i´m shy and saying nothing.
    But can give me any tipps to talk more with people i dont know.

    i never ever try to start a conversation with a unknown person. i dont have that much confidence because i was bullied in the past and since than my confidence in myself was completly gone.know today i have a little bit more confidence but not so that i would to somebody that i dont know to be honest. :S I’m doubting alott on myself when somethings happen than i than i think it’s all my fault. And when something bad happens i think always than i must deserve it. I’m a good person but i give to much sometimes and people take to much because im too good.

    i cant help it i rather be good to people than Always thinking of myself. i rather helping my loveddones than regret when they are gone than i did not you know.

    But Thanks for posting Matthew and Ernesto ;)
    i have watched all the episodes of ready for Love and i must say I LOVED IT. well maybe i was too young to watch it but you have to start young to know something right ;)

    Lovely Greetz Thirza From The Netherlands :)

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