Maybe you’ve been trapped here before. In this strange and emotionally confusing place. A place we call “Relationship Limbo.”
If you’ve ever been here before (or know a friend who has), stop whatever you’re doing right this second and watch this…
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It’s just genius!
That was great. Just what I needed to hear. I have been talking to a guy for 3 months. One date, he’s always busy. Out of the country for a few weeks and hadn’t contacted me in 5 days. No investment there. As hard as it always is, time to back off.
Loved it. Now I have the song stuck in my head.
there’s this guy that has been talking to me for months. And we both really like eachother.. But I’m a virgin, and he doesn’t wanna date me. Because he knows that one thing will lead to another, and it’ll end up happening. And he doesn’t wanna hurt me.. But little does he know, he’s hurting me more by doing this whole not dating yet kind of dating thing. I don’t fully understand it.. I kinda just think it’s dumb. But at the same time I get what he’s trying to do.
Dear Matthew:
This is the all-time best video ever!
I went one step further than sharing this video with a friend.
I forwarded it to the relationship-limbo-guy I’ve been “watching movies” with for nearly eighteen months.
Thank you for your always perfect timing!
Rebecca
Extremely relevant and funny vid, Matt and Co.
Limbo the dog has no problem with a commitment, but Man the dog does. Good grief.
Come on guys…grow some commitment balls.
I think I’m keeping my man in a limbo
So it can be the other way round too
Omg this is freaking excellent ❤️
Very true & funny! Keep up the good work/videos.
Yeah. It’s called “romantic Gaslighting” and like all Gaslighting, it can be SUPER confusing. Closely related to “goodguy Gaslighting”. Experienced this in spades. And the thing is, there is no way to change it as you have no control over it. Only THEY can make a different choice.
Brilliant! I’ve definitely encountered these types of guys and am not too bad now at calling them out/ walking away.
What I’m finding more difficult is guys who want you to commit after a couple of dates. It feels a bit controlling and am unsure how to handle it. Is this always red flag behaviour?
This is really CUTE…and so SWEET. Thank you Matthew.
Thanks for the timely video. Validated my walking away from a limbo relationship yesterday after six weeks. Still getting texts to try to change my mind, but this video is helping me stay strong, and soon I’ll be ready to give other interested prospects a chance.
I loved the dog
The message is crystal clear ☺️
Wow – I didn’t expect this!!! What a crack up!!!! Great performances by everyone and great scripted video – and Matthew you were totally hilarious as the server!!!!
Yup. Just been through that. My story. In a relationship for just over 5 years. The last year was mostly crap. His father died and he pushed me away picking fights. He’s also been divorced twice. Last marriage lasted 5 years and ended bad. I think the 5 year point also affected him. I’m tired of being the weekend girlfriend. We’re both 53. I wanted to move into together. He ran. I don’t want to start a new mortgage when we’re 60. I’m not a priority. Friends and quading, sledding before me. Every weekend is at the cabin which I love. But occasionally I have family stuff for us. 2-3 weekends a year. Always an argument and I get a maybe from him. No compromise. We’ve been apart now for almost 8 months. I caught him in a lie when he tried to bail on my family dinner. Big fight we ended it. I love him and want him back but only if we move forward and I’m a priority. Got a video for that?
I love this!! I have so dated this guy!! You are right it’s lame! Finally had enough and gave him the boot for good a couple of months ago. It’s been a turning point for me. Thanks for the affirmation, Matt and crew!!
Ha-ha-ha-ha!!! Great stuff! Watched it three times in one go, and still smiling :). Well done to the guys who acted it out so beautifully! I mean what a good idea all over! Not likely that I will ever get trapped in a ‘limbo’ again, (thanks to you Matt, btw :), but great reminder. Soo funny! Yeah, thanks for everything so far ;)
I found this video very empowering. I am in this situation and needed to see it for what it was. I still like the guy but now I have a handle on what he is good for and what he isn’t.
Loved the musical. the video was informative. its hard to just let go when you’re in limbo :(