Maybe you’ve been trapped here before. In this strange and emotionally confusing place. A place we call “Relationship Limbo.”
If you’ve ever been here before (or know a friend who has), stop whatever you’re doing right this second and watch this…
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Very creative and spot on. I love that you address relationship issues with such engaging, fun, funny, and poignant videos…. well done!
There is only one response to the insistent “limbo guy”…. acute silence. They hate it because you aren’t feeding them anymore. And it solves YOUR problem as well.
Put on the brave face, don’t text back, and move on to men with better behavior who treat you with the respect you deserve.
Thanks, Matt!
Matt, OMG. Googled Daniel Radcliffe. You do look just like him. He could be your evil twin.
That was so much fun and you have helped so many people. Thanks
Wow! LOL That was a fun video, I love it. Loved it more when the woman finally called it quits. Great lesson thanks Coach.
After 10 months togueter, I know his parents, kids, friends and co-workers and the same in the other side. Am I in a limbo relationship because he is not able to say that he loves me or he is not talking about a future together yet? We spend every weekend togueter and we check daily in each other coming from both sides? Am I been ambitious or I need to ask a more direct question?
i’M so so happy I saw this video!! it condenses everything I’ve been going through !! I wish id seen it before as it hits the point so directly ! I’m glad I,]’m not the only one whose experienced this epidemic !
Love, love this video. Every word that came out of the Limbo Loser’s mouth is how he treated me for 4.5 months. I cut it off 3 weeks ago. During the first 2 weeks I felt a little guilty for leaving. However, during this 3rd week I felt so relieved I left, he wasn’t even my type, not attractive and not the sweetest person. I settled for less because I haven’t been in a relationship in 5 years.
It wasn’t all roses and sunshine the way I pretended. It was just a fake relationship. Please be careful with meeting guys online. I am 46 and still learning thanks to Matthew. Ladies please walk away as soon as you realize you are in limbo you are so worth a winning man!
I love this video and absolutely hate limbo. I’ve been seeing a guy that I met at a job I was temping at. We had instant chemistry and have had a few great dates! However, he gives me vibes that he is hiding something, and I can never shake the feeling.
Recently, I let him spend the night. The next day, he was incredibly elusive. Im so disappointed. This morning, I finally got the nerve to tell him I deserve than the way he’s been playing with me. It hurt. Then, I archived the text messages.
I know he’ll have an excuse. I know he’ll complain I’m rushing… I just feel like, if it’s not too early to fool around, it’s not too early for monogamy.
Thanks for validating my stance with this funny, encouraging, and empowering series.
Question
I have this guy we have been dating for 6months now. He texts me once a day intead of more like he use to. I feel a disconnect nd was wondering what to text him to make him come closer again and actually commit.
On April/ 19- 29/ 2018, my EX broke up w/ m & claimed that we both knew it was gonna end soon, that he wants to be a SINGLE DAD to his girls, and other BS STORY LIES he comes up with… But, I know NOW he was BSING me as he did the whole 6yrs together ! He’s a LIMBO, LIES ALL THE TIME, caught him time after time including now which is unnecessary for him to continue lying to me. I’m not his chick anymore.. lol ! Fast forward >>>> I wish I could take any of your AWSOME ADVICE’S, but I currently can’t due to PREGNANTCY ! It turns out that I was 2 wks pregnant pregnant before the brake- up ! BUMMER ME !
Anywhoooo, thanks again for all those good notes tips!
This is great! I’m just curious that as high valued women… what can you text to a guy who has either ghosted you or doesn’t invest in you?
I think ignoring the fact they stopped talking to you or they said that like they were interested in seeing you again but haven’t… it’s not ok and I think not saying something makes guys think that this behavior is acceptable but it isn’t.
What’s a high value response in this case?
There is little left for the big day! What will be, which will be chosen … Thank you very much for sharing, all are great and beautiful letters.
OMG. I dated this guy for 3 years! We’ve been apart now for over 2 and I still can’t stop thinking of him. I want his good twin