Maybe it’s happened to you before: you knew you kind of liked a guy, but then he did one special move that made your heart do a triple back flip – now you are crazy about him.
How does this happen??
It’s not about fancy tricks, it’s about understanding this secret of deep, lasting attraction…
It was when after we had wild sex, before he got up to get dressed he kissed me on my forehead.
It was when the next morning he made me a special coffee.
It was when we were just chatting and he pulled something out of my hear so gently.
It was when I first went to his place, he warmed up his bedroom because he knew I prefer warm rooms.
It is very true I have experience some before the way he talk and how he looks at me made me go crazy, we are no more but the feelings is still there what should I do to forget about him.
When the guy kiss me on my forehead,my hair…this is lovely
I had started to stay a few nights at the guys house who I am seeing . He wouldn’t wake me but let me sleep. I would wake up and find him outside watering and taking care of his rose bushes. His dog would be outside with him and his dog would let him
know when I was awake. He would cut off a really nice looking rose and trim the leaves and give me the rose.We both love roses. I never had anyone to give me a rose that is nicely trimmed from his rose bushes. Each time I thank him for a rose our eyes lock for a minute or two.
As I was driving us to our date night, he was on his cell phone taking a call. Which it didn’t bother me but he caught me off guard by grabbing my hand all the way to our destination even after he finished his call. I felt so reassured and confident an unexpected feeling that I never knew existed.
I have not had that feeling in my life.
My boyfriend at the time did not usually show so much affection for kids. One time we got to pick up my 5 year old brother from kindie and he was so responsible and caring, holding his hands and making sure he does not run off everywhere. I never forget that moment.
He is a 2x veteran. I was driving us to a movie and stopped to give money to a homeless vet. He said his heart melted at that moment because i didn’t stop to question if the guy was real, i just acted because I saw a need. He said “I have been looking for someone like you my entire life”
My friend whom I was dating had arrived at my house and I was busy spending time inside my barn. I had warned my 12 yr old daughter not to play near the prickly bushes because they had fuzzy and prickly seed pods that would stick to everything. Outside my barn I could hear her and my friend talking. She was crying softly so I came out to investigate. Before I made an appearance from the barn, I came upon an image that would stay with me forever. My daughter had very long straight hair and she apparently went too close to those prickly bushes, but here was this big, strong man painstakingly taking every strand of her hair and gently removing the thorns. He hadn’t called for me to take care of it. He took it upon himself to help her. That moment in time made my heart do a double take, and I knew then I had found a good man.
I was with this guy I’m seeing and at the end of a lovely night he drove me home and walked me to my front gate. At this point he bent down and very gently kissed my forehead and lent his against mine. It was such a gentle gesture that I couldn’t help be be more attracted to him.
My Collie is 13 years old. I grew up watching Lassie and had always wanted my dream dog. I achieved that goal
and I’ve had my dog since he was 5 weeks old. We don’t have much time left together now though. One night while discussing a dog he (an old acquaintance) rescued, I mentioned that I don’t know what I’m going to do when the time comes for my Champ. he said, “I know the pain darling… I’ll be here for you should that time comes but I pray it doesn’t”… Most guys think it’s just a dog or say the wrong things. His comment warmed my heart because he understood that it is painful and I remember thinking, “He’s unique…’He’s Special”…
I dont eat beef due to my religous beleife and my date who is not accustomed to this made sure he never order the beef when we having dinners together. Evethough i dont mind of him eating beef yet the thought realy made me fall for him.
Hi matt,
I remember a time when I was really drawn to someone because he showed keen interest in what I wanted to for a living and set out to support every effort I made towards achieving my aspirations. He saw my happiness to be his happiness too, my sorrows as his sorrows.
I was walking with a guy and stopped to get a drink from a drinking fountain. He reached over and helped me hold my hair long thick hair back. It just struck me as so randomly thoughtful. We’ve been married 24 years.
There are many little things that were happening at the same time I guess, when he told me that he bought a bracelet from a child and did not bargain for the price.. when he pulled me by my hand to avoid waves (we were walking at night on the beach).. when he laughed at me when I almost clumsily dropped my eyedrops..
etc
The moment of Attraction was when he came closer to me trying to guide me on how to choose my Carrier and other things like making a decision in life
I am 45, Asian. Maybe due to my babyface,exercise-toned body..i always attract much younger guys. My ex was 10 years younger than me. Recently i met some young guys interested in me. One of them is a 28 years old good looking Chicago ibanker. My heart beats so fast when he’s talking to me.
But deep inside i am so scared. Dare not to tell them my age (always tell him it’s women secret :)). Worry that they will look at me with disgust and run away. That will be quite embarassing.
I have decided to quit in this game. Too much pressure
We met in the community we both live in. We both use the gym and I happened to be in a bootcamp at the time. Shortly after we starting seeing each other he charged into the gym and quickly ran toward me and kissed me. It was the best feeling. He told my world that he liked me, really liked me.
When I told a guy which political party I supported and he read their platform before getting back to me and continuing the conversation. Also, when I cry or soften up – when I don’t just talk from my intellect.
Thanks so much Matt for this wonderful work you’ve devoted your time to inorder to make love life easy for women, there is this guy friend of mine I never realised I liked him so much until I heard him help reconcile a couple which heard difficult time in their relationship the way he spoke in a mature manner and presented himself in away I never realised he could I also found out he has helped so many other people in different ways.I realised i am so attracted to him until now I feel he’s the kind of man I would love to have in my life actually my feelings for him have grown beyond just attraction I would love to have him for a life time partner