This is a question that is becoming more relevant in our society with the rise of social networking and its place in our everyday lives. The way in which new social media has infiltrated daily routine mean that never before has it been so easy to casually browse the social/professional/family lives of our exes 24/7.
The boundaries have shifted, and the click of a mouse is now the only thing that stands in our way of re-opening that bridge of communication with someone whom you have shared intense experiences with.
Is getting back with your ex boyfriend a good or bad idea?
Sparing a few seconds to think about an old flame is one of the most ubiquitous thought processes that occurs in the male and female mind, but why do we do it? What possible desire or use is there to be had by looking back? Well some of us simply haven’t gotten over the fact that that last relationship is indeed over.
This can indeed be an unpleasant place to be in, and I have witnessed first hand the needy, insecure effects this can have. Whatever golden age of communication we are currently, or will ever be in, opening contact in this state of mind clearly has its own pitfalls, however casual and laid back we think it may seem.
In my experience there are several positive reasons as to why we think about finished relationships:
- Shared emotion –Just because the relationship is finished, it doesn’t mean all those happy, intimate experiences you shared when you were a couple didn’t happen. By definition, entering a relationship is a decision based on the back of good memories and enjoying another’s company.What’s more, these happy memories are the ones that shimmer on the surface when you think back to time spent with your ex, as the negative experiences often fade or dull with time. We can start to think of an ex in the same way we thought of them when we first met them, which can lead to unexpected surge of affection or desire.
- Familiarity – So many pitfalls face the new couple these days, indeed the rise of social networking has made maintaining a private life free from pictures, social timetabling, relationship statuses and the like an active rather than a default process.With this in mind answer this question: In our daydream where we toy with the possibility of re-entering a relationship, does being back with that ex ever feel like a ‘new’ relationship? In my experience the answer is no, and reaching this place of mutual comfort and respect with a partner is something that is not in present in every relationship, making us value those that do have them, even if they were in the past.
- Risque – The intense experiences shared with an ex are varied as they are many, and some people will re-live most the comfort and security of sharing a mutual bond with a person who they are attracted to, whereas some will re-live the passionate and intimate moments most. These people may not necessarily think of a relationship when they think of an ex, they may think of re-kindling fiery sexual experiences.
The biggest reasons why you might want to
There are many reasons as to why we may feel that we would want to get back in contact with an ex, so in this age of having instant communication available to us 24/7, have the rules changed and is it more acceptable to do so? It certainly is less of social taboo to do so these days, especially when we think back to 20 years ago when re-establishing even the most casual form of contact meant calling up their home phone line.
A photo comment, an invite to a common friend’s gathering, a simple “happy birthday! X” can all suffice to do the same job as that heavy phone call; re-opening contact.
Additionally photo albums and access to people’s relationship statuses all serve to give us even more information as to whether contact would be likely to be met with a favourable response. Crucially, contact can be perceived to be so much more casual and off-the-cuff, defusing any nerves or desperation that could be present if you were to bump into your ex on the street.
Before you sign in to Facebook or think about re-tweeting a comment…
Whilst access to our past relationships has become easier with the rise of different social tools, the rules have only changed in relation to exactly that: the tools of communication.
The rules of good old person to person contact will never change. Sure the good memories stand out, but there were definitely bad ones, hence the finishing of the relationship. And no matter how casual we may sound when inviting an old flame for a casual cup of coffee when you happened to be near their office some day, if the whole thing was planned and you’re a nervous wreck desperate to manipulate any social tool available to us just to see your ex, then that will come across pretty quickly upon a meeting in person!
The bottom line is that this situation is different for everyone. If you happen to have moved on from your past relationships and indeed engaged in new ones only to realise upon long reflection that you never recaptured what you had with your ex, then sure, using the ever changing array of social tools available to re-open contact is now easier than ever before. If however, you still feel like or indeed have just been dumped and are desperate to ‘get your ex back’ then the same old rules apply, and bombarding your ex with unrequited messages of love will still not bring them back, with or without today’s technology.
Certain signs of attraction from a guy and little hints can be enough for you to fully understand if he still likes you and wants to get back with you, so watch out for those.
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my name is mark brown from UK.i want to share my testimony with the about a great man called Dr ORIWO for he did for me and for risking his life just to save my relationship. it starts like this i had a lover called Juliet we both lived in peace and harmony. apart from that we proposed to each other.when she saw a guy from USA called john she feel in love with him and went after him.i tried all means to bring her back ,but i could ,until when a friend of mine told me about a man called DR ORIWO,and i said let me contact him and i contacted him he told what to do and i did exactly what he said. within the nest 44hours she returned back to me.you can reach him on his email address landofsalvation@gmail.com or call his cell phone +2347032813418.i promise he will help you out of your problem.
My Name Janet Brown
I want to testify of the good work of Dr Odumdu who helped me in achieving the thing i never thought i was going to have again. i was in a relationship for 4yrs with my boyfriend and everything was going so sweet i loved him and i believed him loved me more than anything in this world after a while i noticed some changes in him so i knew something was wrong i tried to please him in several was but yet no outcome.shortly i noticed he was seeing another girl i tried to make him understand that i loved him so much but he wouldn’t even listen.one day i read a testimony on a similar case a person testifying of the work of this great Dr Odumdu even when i did not believe i was convinced by my boyfriend so i contacted him and let him know all my problems and him said i should not worry myself that everything will be okay for me and just like him said in 2days my lover was back to the man i know before thanks to you great Dr Odumdu so if you are going through a similar problem like this just contact him i guarantee you he will help you here is his email:landofsolution@gmail.com or call +2347053319835
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I never knew people still have powers and make things happened this way.
my name is Michelle Sonia, am from American. my boyfriend Carlos Wilson left me for
another girl for three months’ ever since then my life have been filled
with pains, sorrow and heart break because he was my first love who This
virgin me when i was 21 years old about two years ago. A friend of mine,
Melinda told me he saw some testimonies of this great Dr AYEWA that he
can bring back lover within some few days. i laugh it out and said i am
not interested but because of the love my friend had for me, she consulted
the great priest on my behalf and to my greatest surprise after four days
my boyfriend called me for the very first time after three months that he
is missing me and that he is so sorry for every thing he made me went
through. i still can’t believe it,is highly unbelivable because it just too real to be real.
Thank you so much Dr AYEWA for bringing back my lover and also to my lovely friend
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Hi, 3years ago I was dating a guy, I was 18 and he was 21yrs, I was madly inlove with him, but we ended our relation due to family problems, I had moved on after a tormenting break up, even moved away, I started dating again. I dated 5guys, n last guy I dated was 1yr 9months, I’m currently single. Eversince da last guy, I got in touch with guy I first guy i dated, he told me he never dated after me coz he stil loves me, and couldn’t come to terms with breaking my heart. I want to know if we stil stand achance, time has passed but I stil find an atraction torwards him, we haven’t seen eachother yet.
My Name is Janet Brown
I want to testify of the good work of Dr Odumdu who helped me in achieving the thing i never thought i was going to have again. i was in a relationship for 4yrs with my boyfriend and everything was going so sweet i loved him and i believed him loved me more than anything in this world after a while i noticed some changes in him so i knew something was wrong i tried to please him in several was but yet no outcome.shortly i noticed he was seeing another girl i tried to make him understand that i loved him so much but he wouldn’t even listen.one day i read a testimony on a similar case a person testifying of the work of this great Dr Odumdu even when i did not believe i was convinced by my boyfriend so i contacted him and let him know all my problems and him said i should not worry myself that everything will be okay for me and just like him said in 2days my lover was back to the man i know before thanks to you great Dr Odumdu so if you are going through a similar problem like this just contact him i guarantee you he will help you here is his email:landofsolution@gmail.com or call +2347053319835
my life is full of joy because Dr White asked me to be happy What happened to me is not what i can keep only to myself but to also tell the world so that those that were once like me will get there love ones back and been happy once again. I and my lover had some issues which leads to our break up since after then my life has never been the same i tried all method to get him back but they were just waste of effort and waste of time. But one day during my search on the internet i came across someone testimony about Dr.white was able to bring back my lover within 48hours. With the great thing that happened in my life i decided to tell the whole world about this great man called Dr white. For those in need of anything he told me that in his temple there is know impossibility now i believe him so much friends if you need help to bring back your ex lover kindly contact him via email: whitelove909@ymail.com And i promise you that your lover will definitely be back to you.
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Regards
Dr Ekuku aka love solution
Good Day everybody, my names is joyce LINDA, am from the United State of America, i want to give thanks and honor to Dr. baba for the great work he did for me, he brought my lover within 24 hours which i never taught it will ever come through in my life, but this great man Dr. baba proved to me that powers can do wonders, i got his contact from a friend in the USA who he helped, this friend of mine told me that this man is great but i felt as hmm are you sure? cause i hardly believe those kind of things,so she told me not to worry that when i contact him, that she is guaranteeing me 100% that my lover will come back that if it does not work that she will be the one to give me back my money, to show her sincerity to me, she gave me her car that if it does not work that and she did not pay me the money that i spent that she i should collect her car and she gave me all the documents, i was so so surprised she was very serious about it so that was how i contacted him and i told him what i want he just told me that everything will be done within 24 hours so with the assurance my friend gave me i was having confident, so in the next 24 hours that he told me i just heard a knock on my door i never knew it was mark, so that was how i opened the door the first thing he did was to go on his knees, he started begging me to forgive him that he is very sorry for everything, i was really surprised and was also happy, so that was how i forgived him and now we are living together happily than ever before, and am using the media to invite my friends on my wedding which will coming up on 24/12/2013, am very happy thanks be to Lucy who gave me his contact and honor be onto Great DR. BABA who helped a lot, if you need his help or you want to thank him for me you can contact him through okutemple@hotmail.com
I’m so happy and over whelmed for what Dr Igbudu has done for me, I
never expected that from him, I heard about him on news papers
and radio stations in USA, So i decided to go online and search for him
which i did and i got all contact about him on the internet and also the
good works he has been doing for people then i contacted him and told
him my problems and i said i had good news about him from public medias in
USA, So he said i should not worry that my lover would be back on
thursday the 14th of febuary that we both are going to celebrate the
valentine together, i was so happy to hear that really on the 14th of
febuary my lover called me and sent me a text message wishing me a
happy val and he said he would love us to come back together and have
dinner i was so happy, That my Richard is back to my arms, He came to my
house that morning with a flower and gifts items i was so happy for what Dr
Igbudu did for me i never believed he would ever come back to me now we
are together and he cant leave a second without him seeing me, I’m so
happy and grateful.. Please friends this is a man i trust and believe
in, he is already known round the world, You can contact him on
his private email: igbudutempleofsolutions@gmail.com or cell Number
+2348103318340
Name:Maureen Crystal
Country:USA
My Name wayne angela.
I want to testify of the good work of Dr ozalogbo who helped me in achieving the thing i never thought i was going to have again. i was in a relationship for 4yrs with my boyfriend and everything was going so sweet i loved him and i believed him loved me more than anything in this world after a while i noticed some changes in him so i knew something was wrong i tried to please him in several was but yet no outcome.shortly i noticed he was seeing another girl i tried to make him understand that i loved him so much but he wouldn’t even listen.one day i read a testimony on a similar case a person testifying of the good work of this great Dr Ozalogbo even when i did not believe i was convinced by my boyfriend so i contacted him and let him know all my problems and him said i should not worry myself that everything will be okay for me and just like he said in 2days my lover was back to the man i knew before, thanks to you great Dr Ozalogbo so if you are going through a similar problem like this just contact him i guarantee you he will help you here,his email:ozalogboshrine@gmail.com.
Am very happy today that i am finally among the people who is writing great things about Dr Lumba my name is Cindy Lanny am from UK i have found a way to get help but all my ways never went right,But all went right when i came in contact with this great man called Dr Lumba,Dr lumba has brought this unbelievable blessing to me by bringing back my lover Maxwell who i taught will never come back to me like he said he was leaving for good i felt so happy when Dr Lumba told me not to worry that he assures me that he will determinately bring back Maxwell and it was so unbelievable that Dr Lumba brought my lover back to my arms within 12 hours he just told me that this is not a serious issue that he will bring back my lover within 12 hours i was wondering how that would be possible but it was possible by the name of God that was what he said and believe me within the 12 hours was a call from Maxwell begging me to accept him back and i was so happy that so i would be celebrating this wonderful Christmas with my lover with the help of Dr lumba i know a lot of us are looking for this kind of happiness and celebrating this Christmas with there love ones you don’t need to panic anymore Dr lumba is here and you can get in contact with him on his private email drlumbahomeofsolution@gmail.com or cell Number +2348112867024
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