Relationships Are Not Transactions
The lesson of this video is to become a VALUE GIVER, not a value taker.
While my book and organisation are playfully called “Get The Guy”, you really don’t ‘get’ by going out with a mindset to get. You get by going out with a mindset to GIVE.
Think about it… You KNOW when a guy’s not coming up to you to give value; when he’s coming up to you just try and get something.
In the example I talk about in the video, it struck me that this is exactly how women feel when a guy walks up to them with an agenda.
And so many people go into interactions with a transaction in mind.
Today I want to pose a simple question:
–How do you add value?
Through your personality? Your humour? Who you are? The atmosphere you create?
Let me know in the comments below!
As I mention in the video, you don’t have to go in thinking ‘I am going to give value to this person’. You can add value just by being a great energy around someone.
How are you going to do it with the next group you come into contact with?
Many of you have been asking about the Lifestyle Retreat programs that I do.
Both events that I had booked for the end of this year and now completely SOLD OUT – even though there’s still over 4 months to go!
**Great news**… I’ve decided to throw in one more just to cope with demand and the number of people who otherwise would be missing out.
This is something I’d never normally do, but there are simply too many people missing out to not do it.
It’s going to be in November from the 4th to the 8th.
I would love to see you there!