How to Text Guys – 4 Messages He’ll Love

He sends you a text message. It says “miss you”.

Ugh, really?

You thought he had disappeared, gone cold.

Is he going to just win you back so easily? You’re in a real dilemma about what to say next. (If you want to make sure you handle this EXACTLY right, this video explains the exact words that will now get him more attracted). You ask yourself: What if there was just ONE PERFECT text that you could deploy right now that would communicate how awesome you are without seeming needy or aggressive?

Well, good news. I’m about to reveal what golden texts you can send to make sure you’re equipped for all different kinds of scenarios…

9 Texts No Man Can Resist

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  1. Laura Rawlins says:

    what do I text in response to my boyfriend? when he texts me the line “Have sex with me”? on Facebook messenger? it’s gonna be something cute, something flirty, something sweet that melts his heart, but at the same time builds massive sexual tension within him, but is not too overly sexual. because I am independent, self respected Down Syndrome woman with standards who has been raised in a family of 2 brothers and have lived in a male predominate environment all my life. I spend most of my time around guys and have adopted their behaviors and social skills. can you help me?

  2. Keturah says:

    Thanks I really appreciate and learn from all your video

  3. Keri says:

    Matt . I’ve been in a relationship with this guy for 4 years. He’s funny. He’s playful. Intelligent. And romantic but not enough and only when he wants. We always say good morning and good night (I should have mentioned it’s a ldr) but tonight he answered with okay! ! I asked him what tone I should be reading this ok and he said he’s getting tired of the same thing. (Me too) how can I spice things up. It can’t be sexual because we agreed we were going to stop until we get married . He is 200+ miles away and he can’t move here until his workers comp case is settled so he can finally have money to support us. Help . I really love him and he has told me he loves me too. And has shown me he loves me by coming here for the day . However, I must be honest the past couple of months he’s been flaky and it drives me crazy. I’ve asked him why and there’s always a legitimate excuse . I’ve been going thru some of my own battles and without anyone’s help except God I have overcome. We both believe the same and we both grew up kinda the same. So we have lots in common . I find myself boring lately and I need your help. Ty

  4. Niknac says:

    How about the ‘Heya how was your day’one at 9pm . When you have not responded to a different message sent that same morning which was not a question one.

  5. abby says:

    No one is that busy that you can’t respond to a text for weeks. If there’s complete silence then just a ‘hey’, that’s just not gonna cut it for me. There’s just not enough interest. If a guy is interested, he won’t wait for weeks. So simple! No need to find ANY excuse for him…just move on. I wouldn’t even bother to send back any text, just let him go! :)

    Who are we kidding, Stephen, Matt?

  6. Emily says:

    These are fabulous! That “Duh” response has me literally LOLing

  7. Elena says:

    Hey Matt,

    Thank you for the amazing video! I’m just wondering if the guys who behave like that in the first place should be considered as quality guys at all. Maybe I get it wrong but I seems that the mentioned messages show that this particular guy is lazy, selfish or irresponsible. Should we really deal with them longer?

    Could you clarify if good guys can write messages like those?

    Thank you again,

    • Link says:

      He might have his own reason for that (works, family issues,…) which you might want to hear him out if he explained to you. You could give him a second chance, but if it happens again then NO. Just stay away at that point. As everyone always says, nobody is too busy for the people they care about, so watch out for those red flags.

  8. Laurie says:

    Oh my goodness! Perfect. Thank you, Matt! Writing these down, just in case ;)

  9. Essie says:


    For the “entertain me” text response, what if a guy writes “hey what’s up”, instead of just “hey”. Would your suggested response of “Hey!” still be appropriate or do I need to think of something interesting to say to the “what’s up” part.

    And this is a guy replying on a Monday midday after not texting me back on a Friday night.

    Please reply soon, it’s urgent

  10. Paloma says:

    Matt, I REALLY LOVE these videos, I mean, we all really love it! What if this man is your ex that you were waiting to be running back to you? I know you have an awesome program about it and i’m following the 5-step plan. However being in Brazil I’m having particular difficulties to buy it now. It would change my life to have some strategies about the contact period.


    • Nicole says:

      PALOMA o livro dele ja foi traduzido pro português e é maravilhosooo tem no o livro chama :Mulheres poderosas não esperam pela sorte: Saiba como encontrar o homem certo e fazer ele se apaixonar por você,mandei email pra editora e eles colocaram esse nome hehe mas é dele sim,pede ele aqui nos comentários pra disponibilizar outros livros/programas de treinamento em português..ia vender muito.

  11. Sydney says:

    please, please don’t ever remove the video. You are just too cute!!!

    very funny.

  12. Jade says:

    Excellent! I will be putting these to use. Thank you!

  13. Tammy says:

    Love these! Going to start using them today. Thanks Matt! X

  14. anon says:

    These texts are super Matt! Thank you soooo much! I’m going to put them in my phone (just in case!).

  15. Ha says:

    I’m sorry, I’m not a native speaker, what do you mean by the word “flaky”? flaky moment, flaky guy?

  16. Kooky says:

    Human being …. HELP :/

    I know what you read is not related to the subject here … but I have a question

    I LOVE sex , it’s the most beautiful experience that man and woman can share . I LOVE feeling of my partner’s boner when he hugs … it’s a huge turn on :D … whispering in his ear telling him that I can’t wait to rip his clothes off and have sex with him :D <3 . I'll do blow job even though it's disgusting , but I'll never stop learning how to improve my skills " blow job " till I make him satisfied … while I kiss him I'll reach my hand gently to his 8===D …and make him appreciated ;) . I'll explore his fantasies and main too … and one of them is " the sex nature " which is having sex in the nature in the day light ' I have nothing to hide , so does he '…and no not in front people , but I have to make sure that we won't caught by the cops ;) . I'd love to give him a massage specially 8===D and around it :D

    but the ONLY thing that I hate is anal sex , it's a deal breaker to me , why? because the damages that anal sex causes . I do really care about me and my partner's sex health … read this article to understand

    lots of women are suffering because of the anal sex , they are afraid to communicate to their partners that they hate anal sex :/ . and if my partner asked me to have anal sex , then he reached to a point that he can't satisfy me as a woman . Because the sexual way that makes me feel like a woman is through my vagina . and there are more than 360 of sex positions … doggy position , dragon position , donkey position ,…. :D <3 .
    So , how can I communicate to him my standard without bruising his ego .

    Human being …. HELP :/

    • Sydney says:

      Yeah have fun with “the sex nature”

      If you’re not into something just say I’m not into that, right now. He’s a big boy, I’m sure he won’t burst into tears.

  17. Lucy Walker says:

    Hey, Matthew, my coach. As usual, you’re AMAZING. You manage to hit the nail, right on the head! And the way you mimic the guys is SOOOOOOOOO funny LOL. I’ve been in this situation a few times with guys in the past and it’s so helpful now to get these tips thank you xx

  18. Sarah says:

    So helpful!

  19. Michelle Bradbury says:

    Hi Matt – I so love the theatrical “hey I’ve been thinking about you” it was laugh out loud funny.

    I did want to offer an alternative to the “hey” option. You’ve said to text “hey!” I have used a derivative of this. I’ve used “Yo!” I like this as it has the added benefit of using less characters which demonstrates my standard & yet the exclamation point shows a light-heartedness too I think.

    Your thoughts?

    Also, I wondered if you could offer an alternative to saying flakey for the 4th reply? I’m in Melbourne in Australia & that’s not really a term used here much.

    I also wondered why you even gave a response to the 4th text? I would have thought a far more empowered response would be no reply at all? At best someone who stood me up without explanation would get the ZZzz emoticon!

    Thanks for your consideration & I look forward to more from you.

    You’ve been a pleasure to watch & listen to.



  20. Shade says:

    Thanks! Thanks for breaking down what the deal is with the texts and how to respond appropriately. I really value the insights you provide…

    Thanks Matthew! :)

  21. Maz says:

    Awesome! Wish I’d seen something like this years ago. Lmao! The cheek of them. Like you’re the answer to their dreams. Love the one about not turning up. :)

  22. Kathryn says:

    So good!

  23. Anne says:

    Very useful! Thank you.

  24. Lauren says:

    Lmao!! One of your most funniest videos ever! And still useful of course! Thanks Matthew :)

  25. Caitlin Pedersen says:

    This is what I need!!! I don’t need someone telling me not to fall for these text messages, but HOW to actually respond to them them. Thank you so much, this really helps. :)

  26. Layla Jawhar says:

    Hi Matt
    I was hoping to find a text that you would write when a guy texts you (go take a picture and show me how nice your body looks) but I actually have some rules that he is not allowed to see how I look nor sleep with me. I’ve been fighting with him for saying no every time. What should I do cause he’s not talking to me anymore.

    • Pixie says:

      There is a video that is what to reply when he sends a pic of himself (d&#% pic). I think it also deals with if he asks you for a pic of you as well. “I’m sorry I think you’re confusing me with a future me who…” If you haven’t watched it yet you should.

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