What Men Want: Top 4 Things We Love In Our Dream Woman

You wouldn’t believe how often people ask: “What kind of woman would Matthew Hussey date?”

Well… there’s a long answer and a short answer. The short answer is silly, but it’s one of my MOST ESSENTIAL NEEDS in a relationship.

I need a girlfriend who loves to cuddle.

Yep. I’m a cuddler.

That’s just me though. Not every man is as big on cuddles as I am.

However, there are certain qualities in a woman that ALL men are attracted to. In this week’s video, I’m going to reveal what the top 4 irresistible traits in a woman are so that you know exactly how to get any guy addicted (regardless of his views on cuddling)…


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45 Replies to “What Men Want: Top 4 Things We Love In Our Dream Woman”

      1. That’s what makes him so attractive is his selectiveness. He may or may not be single, but he is definitely very sweet, and seems to really appreciate his followers, and has a genuine love for the women he coaches. You never know what can happen if you meet him… ;) ❤️

        1. ❤️ I like him a lot , as does EVERYONE. It makes me really happy to be part of everything. He has the most beautiful smile I’ve ever seen and his eyes are shining today, it’s not too shabby

  1. Hah, Matthew, you’re such a cutie. I’ll see your cuddling and raise you protectiveness. That’s a trait that I almost never see in men but that I really have to have. If you tell me the secret to finding a man who will stand up for himself, the people he cares about, and the people who can’t stand up for themselves, I’ll tell you the secret to bringing out the softer side of strong women (hint: it’s making them feel safe, which you probably already knew #ihavetheworstpokerfaceever).

  2. Then get a teddy bear lol Your perfect woman is out there, I’m sure. Until then, maybe you can cuddle with that bear.

  3. You are MOST love-r-ly, it has to be said.

    Which girl could keep herself from constantly cuddling you?!

    I know I couldn’t. You’d have to prise me off like a barnacle from a rock!!….hehe ;-)

  4. Matthew, I think you have likely just made thousands of other women fall in love with you over this video, “I love to cuddle” he said with his British accent and perfect smile.

    MOST women love to cuddle, so you can take your pick.

    When it comes to finding a good man, I’m thinking I will forever be the one that is putting in all this effort, to be playful, sexual, nurturing, create sexual tension.. All of it.. And the guys I meet like it, but aren’t doing any of it back, which means there is no chemistry.
    I always seems cute texts, never just hey or how’s your day etc. I was seeing this guy and sent him this very flirty text in the morning, “I dreamt about you last night and all I can say is I’m still biting my bottom lip thinking about it hours later”.
    His reply? “lol, good morning, I hope you have an amazing day”. Ugggh its a nice thing to say to your mother or coworker but not your girlfriend of 6 months!
    Maybe you should do a video blog on how to get him to engage in these flirty texts or playful comments! I’m a very shy person and I can still be flirtatious and playful, surely a man can be guided to be that way too? And yeah I’ve tried subtle hints.. I think it’s so sexy when you send me a text that is just for my eyes only,etc.
    Ladies. What do you think? How can we get the guy (haha pun intended) to be more of these things?

    PS Matthew, if you need a good no strings attached cuddle partner next time you are in Toronto, give me a call. I promise to be on my best behaviour ;)

    1. and you say you’re shy??? I personally don’t have this impression reading you. And your texts are very daring, the guy you’re seeing might not be that playful or even share the wish to text back in the same way. Is it smth you try with him to get closer?

      1. i think that’s a perfectly okay response back. He is clearly amused/flattered by it.

        you have to be sexy but not take full control. Like hint at it. Like next time he texts you say “you just got out of the shower” or if you’re taking your dog to go number 2, just say “putting some clothes on to go outside – it’s hot in the apartment!”

        Or say “I took a long bath and it felt soooo good. Totally melted my stress”

        Let him initiate after that. Be subtle

        1. I liked your text by the way. Next time you send him after a text like this, go ahead and show him what you mean… on his lips, but not too hard :D

  5. Hi Matthew
    Cuddles is amazing.. sweet.. intimate and closeness.You are the best!! You like what you do and you’re good at it!!! Thumbs up!!;)

  6. I know a lot of people are watching this and thinking, “I want that man!” But I am sitting here really wanting..the couch. It looks so comfortable, seriously. Haha! I am taking your words to heart, Matthew. Thank you for another lovely video.

    1. Do what makes you happy. Not one of us are exactly the same.

      Do what playful means for you. Enjoy life and life situations and have a good time with those situations. Be in the moment and milk every moment for fun and happiness.

      Good luck! :-)

  7. Independence, sure – but there seems to be a very fine line in how you reveal that to someone. How do you avoid the constant stream of “you’re intimidating” reactions?

    1. OMG!!! YES! I get this all too often. I’m 46, have been there & now have my independence. And a content self esteem. And toys. 4 wheeler, sports car, etc – not the other ones, lol. I do get that comment too often and don’t know what to do about it, particularly because I do tend to get attention of men 5-10+ years younger than me, which is fine with me. :)
      Matthew, help!

  8. Hey Matt, Thanks, I enjoy watching your videos they are a great guide to follow. Cuddling is my weak point as well, it would be nice to find someone to cuddle with, I guess I just need to find someone one day, Though I don’t go looking either as I am a very reclusive person. Question: I was wondering if you come an do seminars in Australia at all?… Anyway I hope you Enjoy your day too. Thanks again for the Video Keep up the great work.

  9. By the looks of your super lovely and stylish pillows I think your not single. No single straight man would ever pick that out LOL! We hope your Happy Matthew.

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