I’ve read countless complaints that go something like this: “Matt, I just don’t meet any guys I actually find attractive.” Or even more severe: “I can’t find a guy who I consider relationship-worthy for me. Maybe I’m destined to be alone…”
I understand that fear, but I also know that this is a dangerous psychology trap, one I’ve seen men and women of all ages fall into. If you feel like no guy is quite what you’re looking for, this is how to solve it…
When did someone’s curiosity allow your interesting side to come out? Leave a comment below…
The simple truth is I just can’t find chemistry with most men that I go on a date with. most of these guys either post profile pictures that are from 20 years ago ( which they are already lying from the get-go ) or they are narcissistic and manipulative.
Hi Matthew,
I do have to disagree with you.
Attraction plays a big role in dating and being in a relationship. If you are not attracted, intimacy becomes a burden and a obligation. No loving intimate relationship can survive just based on personality or they just become your roommates/friends.
No, not correct at all. The men are just unattractive, to a minimum standard, and it wouldn’t matter how much interest they show me. I’m not attracted to them and that’s it. You must have physical attraction. And then almost all of them just want casual sex, which I will not do. It’s not me, it’s definitely them!