What A Difference A Year Makes

It’s been an amazing year for my team and I. With this video I want to stop by to say hello, to say thank you for making happen all that you have, and to reflect on the year and tell you some of the things I’ve learned along the way.

Leave a comment below and tell me one thing you’ve done this year that you appreciate, as well as one thing you’ve learned.

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  1. Eve Calder says:

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  2. Michelle says:

    how to improve my relationship? my boyfriend works two jobs tired when he comes home at night. never wants to do anything with me.

  3. Alethea says:

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    winning back ex boyfriend your online dating site.

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    I am sorry you read those emails.

  4. Diane says:

    Hello, Matt !
    I discovered Get The Guy only a few days ago and this is my first comment.
    The year 2012 wasn’t great. I failed my exam and got kicked out from the faculty of medicine, wich got me depressed for several months. I didn’t know what to do next and I had to questioned myself. Not only for my studies, but for all other things like what kind of woman I wanted to be, my relationships (or lack of), the way I wanted to be treated by the others, etc.
    There also the fact that my nephew was buried at may. He was only 6 months old.
    I think it made me realise that life is short. By the end of the year, I surprised myself because I reacted differently than before about certain situations, like when I don’t get the guy I want.
    It’s like I’m slowly becoming what I really am. I’m AUTORIZING myself to be who I really am.
    All I want, all I need now is some changes and the only way to have them is to act and be “proactive”.
    2013 is MY year; I will be myself (whether the others like it or not) and have what I didn’t in 2012 (success in my studies, a boyfriend,…)

    I love your videos ! You have so much enthousiasm and energy that I can feel it even here in Switzerland ! ^^ I think your advices will help me a lot and I can’t wait to apply them !

    XOXO Didi

  5. Sara says:

    I think I had a good year I kind of got the guy I want and it was by your help
    I swear I got that confident to talk to him and to make him love me from first
    Minutes we talked i know that sounds strange but it’s the truth im saying kind
    Because theres things that im worried about and i just dont know what they are anyways I really want to thank you for what your doing thank you very much and sorry for the bad English I’m from Iraq so I may have mistakes :)

  6. Lucy says:

    I’ve had a hard few years – really very hard. There was so much crying but the best revelation was finally getting over the guys who treated me really badly in the past. I was so upset about this guy who hurt me a few years ago, physically and emotionally. But this year I finally got to thinking “I’m done now” and I have a feeling of freedom. I’ve also had problems with illness for the past 5 years but recently saw the light. I feel a bit hopeful about 2013.

    I really like your blog. You come across as a genuinely kind guy who speaks from the heart. People like you inspire me. Thanks and Happy 2013 :)

  7. Lauryn says:

    Hi Matthew,

    I’m relatively new to this site but I went through a horrendous time earlier this year with a breakup and I pretty much hit rock bottom, I think you mentioned in one of your videos about confidence being in 3 layers and I think I pretty much lost myself during this time….I never left the house, ate or spoke to friends hardly and when I did talk to people, I’d always end up in tears….but suddenly something snapped and I just decided he wasn’t worth it if he could just get up and leave and then be with someone else a month later… its been just over months now and although I class this year as an absolute disaster one fantastic thing came out of it! I managed to land my dream job in the game development industry, I’m not sure how I managed it because when I went for the interview I was so depressed and when I had my internship there for the first few weeks I was really closed off from the rest of the group – though, they might have put this down to shyness, since I’m 1 of 3 women who work there!
    So, I’m proud of myself for getting out of a depression that was taking hold of me… And proud that I found the courage to get on the train to go out of town to the job interview, even though I was at a really low point!

    I also came across your blog after spending hours and hours reading through loads and loads of different articles about dating and relationships and thinking that most of them seem like ways for someone to make money…so I decided to do my own research!
    Then I came across your blog/website and things made sense! :D
    I only recently started watching your videos, in the last couple of days but already I’m feeling inspired! It’s great having someone who’s so down to earth, friendly, funny and genuine giving us all advice, not just in relationships but for life in general! :D

    So, thank you Matt for the inspiration and for kind of being like a best friend or a brother who’s always there to cheer us up and offer great advice…even if its 3am XD

    All the best for the New Year to you and your team!


  8. Roberta says:

    Hey Matthew,
    I just wanted to say thank you for your time. These video’s are amazing and i think they’ll help. i am an incredibly shy person and with your help i am trying to work thru that. i seen guys and some are nice but they never connect like i want them to, and there are others that i know i should stay away from but i can’t. with your advice i am trying to do better. THANK YOU LOTS! muah! HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! i hope yours goes fantastically. :)

  9. Tricia :] says:

    Hi Matty!

    I simply adore your videos, I Love your advice, and smile haha :D this year, I got rid of one toxic relationship and made 5 healthy ones, and i got a job that i love so much. ^.^ this year was abit rough, but i have a feeling 2013 will the be year of dreams come true. :] take care, much love

    xx love from the states!

  10. rakia says:

    great to see you again

  11. Pheobe says:


    Watching your videos make me smile. YOU make me smile because of the way you’re just so REAL and Wonderful. You’re always so positive and have so much energy, it makes me feel that positivity and I can’t help but smile. :)

    I have Fast track (which is super by the way). This blog, and your videos are always so enlightening and put in an applicable way that I don’t feel overwhelmed by it =] I think you are just darling. Have a great 2013! LOVE YOU AND LOVE GET THE GUY!

    xoxo Phoebe :)

  12. Jill says:

    I can’t believe I haven’t commented on here yet. The thing I am most proud of is making myself go to a taping for a show called Ready for Love this past summer. I have to admit I was not in a very good mood that day but a very well spoken Englishman said something that caught my attention. I had the opportunity to thank him for his words and that’s where everything truly began. I have since sent a brief history of what I can offer but hope I have the chance to show him what I’m made of. I really hope he remembers who I am and realizes I’m very headstrong and very seldom do I give up.

  13. Tania says:

    Hi, Matthew! Thank you for sharing so many secrets and ways to understand men better – it seems to be so simple and obvious, but you`ve made it so clear and so much easier to bring to life.. Good luck with your upcoming books and please go on :)

  14. Emily Acre says:

    Hi Matthew, I just wanted to say thank you! Before I knew about you I always had so many questions about men and the situations I was in. I have been watching your videos, reading your blogs, and emails and applying them to my life. They have helped so much! You saved my relationship! Thank you for being here for all us women :) Have a Merry

  15. Sonja says:

    Dear Matthew,
    I’m so happy for you that you and your company have experienced amazing growth this past year and have been discovered by so many people that are hungry for all the insights, encouragement and wonderful male perspective that you have given us… I love your videos and blogs and how very down to earth, personable and real you are with us… you deserve all of the amazing things that are happening for you now. Thank you so very much for all that you do and for seeing the need in the world for what you and your company bring to us. I am so looking forward to your show and book coming to us in the next few months. God Bless you Matthew and all the best to you always.

  16. Gassia says:

    Hi Matt, congrats on everything:) I’m very proud of myself this year, because after four years of studying for exams, writing papers, and doing my best to keep my grades up, I finally graduated at the top of my calss and got my BA. Also, I got my frist ever job:) and I applied for Master at Concordia University in Canada Montreal, still waiting for an answer, hopefully I’ll get accepted. Fingers crossed!!! One thing that I need to improve is my relationships with others and allowing myself to let loose and have fun once in a while. You see I have always put academics and career first and I don’t give much importance to going out with friends and having fun. I say to myself now is not the time to have fun I have deadlines to meet!! I think I need to relax a bit hehe :) Anywayz wish you all the best and hope next year will be even better than this year :D Take care!!

  17. Sabrina says:

    Hi Matt,

    I’ve been following your blog for over a year now and I’ve never left a comment…but there’s always a first time for everything.

    This year I have learned a lot about starting relationships, being more confident in going out and getting the attention of the men I want in my life…but I have so far been unsuccessful at maintaining a healthy relationship.

    Let’s hope I learn that lesson in 2013! XX

  18. Beth says:

    Wow that’s cool, good for you. I try to surround myself with the healthiest men I can as much as possible so I gain that insight as to what your talking about and what that truly means. Thank you!

  19. Christine says:

    Hey Matt,

    I’ve been following your blog for about a year now, and you give really great advice. One thing I’m proud of this year is that I’ve learned how to connect with people I don’t know that well more easily and confidently, and I’ve also deepened my existing relationships. One thing I’ve learned about myself is that I tend to be on the negative side about things sometimes, and I realize I’m doing it and catch myself and try to stay positive. But this has been a great year for me, full of both good and bad experiences. Thanks for what you do.


    • gettheguy says:

      Hi Christine,

      Falling into a negativity habit can be extremely hard to break. You are doing the best thing possible by just changing the behavior each time individually and gradually creating a new habit. Good luck to you and thanks for commenting! x

  20. Tina says:

    Hi there Matt,

    Thanks a bunch for being *Brilliant* Caring* Creative* Open* & Generous*… & 1 thing I did this year is to allow you to be part of my life, of growth….& I appreciate that.

    I’ve learnt several things, so far, but the best thing I’m learning is about *perspective*…& how to be more understanding, to create deeper connection.

    I find the interactions I have with guys, now, are impactive in incredibly positive ways. And are more engaging, in meaningful directions….

    Matt, thanks for your passion, time, and energy!

    Have a Safe, Happy, and Relaxing Xmas,
    Thanks for being Fab*

    Tina :)

  21. Ifigeneia says:

    Hi Matthew!!!! Well done on an amazing year. You deserve it !!! :D I’ve been watching you two months and the only thing that i must tell you is “Thanks you” I used to be lonely as far as my character is concened and not so sociable..And you did it.. you make me rethink all my mistakes and generally to begin to live again. With your advices and your big smile i felt confident :) You really helped me in mu love life too :D I understood which guy is for me !! And you are not going to believe this..he is my best friend!!! So many years i tried to find my prince charming and he was next to me.. so i want your help to get out of the friend zone with a gently way :) Thanks you Matt!!! :D <3 Keep going!!!

  22. Zara Brown says:


    Well done on an amazing year! Your deserve it :D

    My proudest moment for me this year is starting my own theatre company and having 2 sell out shows! I’m living my dream, something i never thought possible at my age (19, 18 when i started). I’ve learnt so much about the theatre industry.
    However, one thing ive learnt about me, its ok to be vulnerable. I’ve never had a problem making friends or getting guys. In fact, I’m pretty sociable, but i have a problem trusting people to a certain degree. Only because im scared of who i’ll become. I’ve seen people change for the worse in relationships, i’ve lost some great friends because of relationships. And because of that, I’m scared of opening my heart to people to much in case that i’ll change into a person who i hate or getting hurt (but so is everyone). That’s the reason i haven’t let myself be in a committed relationship in nearly 3 years. Despite all the offers i’ve had from amazing guys. Emotionally i was not ready. However this year i have learnt that being vulnerable can be a beautiful. My best friend/ business partner has shown me that. Its so nice to have someone i can trust 100% again. Now i can be like that with him, maybe i’ll be able to be like that with someone i start to date and fall for them “to love is to be vulnerable”. 2013 is going to be my year! i hope its yours too matt :D
    and good luck to all the girls reading this, you all deserve to find real love, never settle for second best! Happy new year

    Love Zara xxx

    • gettheguy says:

      Hi Zara,

      Congratulations on your amazing year! Learning to be vulnerable is a very scary thing for most people but remember, being vulnerable isn’t being weak. All the strength that you had in opening your own company is a very attractive thing, the ability to be vulnerable just adds to it.


  23. Marie says:

    So happy that you are having the success you deserve. I am currently going through a divorce and trying to get back out there and date was a little scary. I am so glad that I found your blog and videos. You have helped me more than you will ever know!!
    What a difference a year makes indeed!! I am looking forward to your TV show and book. I think you are the one relationship guru that speaks the truth. All the best,cheers to your success and I hope you have a great holiday season!

  24. anna says:

    hi matt,
    thanks for the wonderful video, my relationship with my bf now is up and down due to so many circumtances we’re both far each you know longdistance relationship most of the we woman always try our best to work it out. Really like your blog and always see you on TV FriendZone..super love..
    All the best to you and your team..

    Happy holidays..


  25. anna says:

    hi matt,
    thanks for the wonderful video, my relationship with my bf now is up and down due to so many circumtances we’re both far each you know longdistance relationship most of the we woman always try our best to work it out. Really like your blog and always see you on TV FriendZone..supre love..
    All the best to all of you and your team..

    Happy holidays..


  26. Olive says:

    Hi Matt,

    Thank you & your team as always for all what you have done, it certainly makes impact in our lives.

    I’ve really lived my life this year and feel that I’m born again. I participated in a lot of different sport activities that I’ve always wanted to do but never did because I always thought I’d to do it together with my guy when I have a boyfriend. But then I realized that I don’t need a man in my life to fulfill my dreams and I can make myself happy before he comes along. So screw the waiting! ;D

    Happy Holidays to All !!

  27. L says:

    Hi Matt, I am really looking forward to your book :-) This year, I invested,and bought the secrets of attraction and the woman’s weekend. I practice a lot but currently for me it hasnt worked to find a right person or really a guy I would date seriously…So maybe I am not doing the right things…Still l will keep listening… I think there is lots of potential in your work and from a psycology side it seems logical and rational. Anyway, Happy Xmas and wish you a good start to 2013 :-)!

  28. Shay says:

    Hi Matt! I’ve never commented before, but I’ve been following your videos and emails for awhile now, and I just want to say thank you! You have such wonderful insite for woman, and even men! I only wish I could thank you in person for all the helpful advice you’ve given me and so many others :) I have begun seeing such an amazing guy this year, with some helpful wisdom ;) so thank you!

  29. Vanessa says:

    my last three boyfriends were pretty awful (mean), and so i gave up on men. i felt pretty hopeless about them. i decided to just give up on the idea of love and partnership and focus my attention on myself. so for the last eight years i haven’t bothered to get to know or go after any guys. it was easier than i thought it would be because my life filled up with other things…such as going back to school and focusing on the joy of what i want to do. i somehow came across one of your videos and i watched it for your cute accent and face. but you seemed very down-to-earth and smart about relationships too! so i signed up for your free videos, and when i get them in my mailbox i enjoy listening to your perspectives on dating and male psychology. little by little they are giving me hope that one day i’ll be ready to think of men as individuals (not a stereotype of awful) and give somebody a chance. thanks!

    • gettheguy says:

      Hi Vanessa,

      I am glad the videos are opening you up to the prospect of having someone in your life. I’m sure you have a lot to give. x

  30. olivia says:

    this year i’ve learned to love myself :)

  31. Jenna says:

    This year has been full of change. I switched out of an engineering major which I loathed, to an anthropology major which I love. I have no idea where my life is going to go anymore, and I’m not sure how I feel about the loss of control. I guess I have to embrace it.

    Anyways, I love your videos. They definitely help make be feel like maybe love might believe in me as much as I believe in it. So thanks for that. I’m still pushing on. You’re entertaining as hell too, besides just being helpful. I hope your 2013 is as amazing as you are hoping for.


  32. Aoife Murray says:

    I cannot wait for the book to come out in January, I was just wondering does the UK include Ireland? I need that book and so do my friends!

    Hope it flies off the shelves.

    Happy Christmas Matt and the gettheguy team :)

  33. karen says:


    Do you do teacher courses ???
    I could work for you in Scotland…..x

  34. karen says:


    Do you do teacher training courses in your name ….ı could work for you in Bonnie Scotland…

  35. Mel says:

    Hey Matt
    Just catching up on all the great blogs and vlogs, now that i have some free time… good stuff, as always! :) So excited for all the good stuff that’s happening to u! U had a vision and u worked hard to make it happen, that’s a great accomplishment! Thumbs up!
    Well, one thing i’m very proud of this year is obtaining my Masters Degree a few months ago. Lots of sweat, tears and sleepless nights, but i did it! Yay!
    And one thing i’ve learned is to listen to my gut instinct, even when my brain is fighting it with logic! lol
    And another thing i was just reminded of while watching ur video, i gotta work on my relationships!

    Cheers to u and ur GTG team! xoxo

  36. Ledia says:

    I’ve always been kinda skeptical about the advice people give to others regarding love, relationships, dating and all the things related to them…so many blogs, so many so-called experts, so many articles, shows, films…I thought I was good at all the dating experience until one day I accidentally ran into one of your videos, it was quite convincing so later I found out about the blog and it has answered to many of my questions…I have to say I don’t take every piece of advice into consideration because I believe that general rules do not apply to the singular person but the messages you want to share: being proactive, putting yourself out there, not caring what actually people think…have helped me quite a bit and I’d like to take the chance and thank you for the amazing job you’ve done. Keep it up!

    • gettheguy says:

      Hey Ledia!
      Thankyou so much. I don’t like rules or mass generalisations either. Sometimes they help in forming principles, but we always have to allow room for flexibility in the way individuals react. I like to keep general principles as my compass, but allow for exceptions!

      Thanks for commenting, and taking the time out to give me your kind words, much appreciated x

  37. Alex says:

    Thanks for everything this year I’m grateful that I found your site and an investing time and money into this area of my life. I am already making small steps and seeing things for how they are not how I want to see them. I’m investing in relationships but also seeing the need for new ones which will help me achieve goals.
    I have also found confidence to realise dreams and know that will enable me to get further along the path I want to be on in my love life.

    I still need to be more proactive and make an effort to get out and do things next year.

    Thanks for everything and hope all have a happy Christmas and joyous new year.


    • gettheguy says:

      Hey Alex,

      That’s so great to hear. We’ll continue the journey as we move into next year and take it to a whole new level ; ) x

  38. casey says:

    Matt! You finally back!
    I’ve been waiting for your new videos.
    I’m really glad that about your upcoming tv show and book releasing. Congratulations :)

    I also wanted to tell you that now I got a VERY good boyfriend because I did according to your advices from your videos; I practiced to look at people into their eyes, smiles a lot, be playful and confident. The guy I am dating now is the most amazing guy I’ve ever been dated. Of course I met a few jerks before I met him. Some guys just want to have fun.
    But I learned how to stay ‘HIGH VALUE’ from you.
    I respect myself and appraently I have a boyfriend who’s very respect to me and to himself too.

    I really want to say ‘Thank you very much, YOU ARE THE BEST’ :)

    Have a wonderful christmas Matt. :)

  39. Montse says:

    Hi Matt ,I am really happy for you!!, like you I am also pursuing my own dream of becoming an interpreter and so right now I’m living in Paris !! I’ve been following you for over a year, I have always liked your articles but because I live in Mexico it is really hard for me to go to one of your seminars .This year I decided to step out of my comfort zone and live in the moment, it was really hard for me but then we only live once ; long story short I had my first kiss with and incredible gorgeous French guy that made me feel even if it was just for one night like I was the most beautiful girl on the planet !(I know it sounds a little lame but I had always wanted my first kiss to be something worth remembering , you are now probably wondering how old I am well I’m 19 but “the first kiss” has always being very important to me and none of the guys that had previously asked me to kiss them made me actually consider it ) I know for lots of girls the first kiss is no big deal since they felt nothing special and I was kind of resigned to the idea but then it happened and it was just PERFECT. I’m tired of waiting for things to happen thanks to you I know understand when you say it is time to be a “creator”!!! Thank you very much Matt!!
    Feliz Navidad !!

  40. Carine says:

    I am so pleased for you and your team. It shows that anything can be achieved when you set your mind to it.

    I’ve made the decision to move to another country and start a new life. I am so excited and know that everything will be fine.
    I’m looking forward to great relationship and living the life I really want.

  41. Jacqueline says:


    I’ve never left a comment, but I’ve been following your videos and emails for a while. I have a boyfriend, but it’s not serious yet and I think alot of what you say is still helpful!

    Proud of: Going back to University and keeping my GPA up
    Where I can improve: Health and focus on regular excercise

    Thanks for being so down to earth, honest and genuine!

    • gettheguy says:

      Thanks Jackqueline, I really appreciate you leaving a comment this time around.

      Congrats on going back to Uni. I’ll do what I can to keep you focused on the health and exercise as we move into the new year : ) x

  42. Kathy says:

    Hi matthew!

    I <3 what you do! :) you are such a great person in what you do, as in giving and sharing tips to make our lives a little easier of which I def. appreciate! this year I have learned to except things the way they are sometimes. you can't always expect things to happen your way especially when feelings can come and go. I actually have learned many things, but the biggest thing I've learned is that even when you have felt that you've fallen down it's a matter of finding and learning to pick urself back up. :) and I def hope to increase my conf and become someone high value. someone who a high value man is attracted towards. :D

  43. Jessica says:

    Definitely glad that I gave in and took the chance to follow you. Although its not been an easy year, I am looking forward to what the new year brings and hope to focus more on me. Being a people pleaser and always doing for others….need to take your spirit and drive to aide in my life. Still single but okay with that. Cheers to your successes and endeavors. Maybe I can do your retreat if you still are planning on one. ready to fuel the soul.

  44. Ela says:

    Thank you for everything that you do for us Matt. Thanks for being generous and kind and share such valuable information with us and help many of us in a way that you cannot even imagined.

    This year I have accomplished a stepping stone of my big goal. I did my best to improve my marks and I am applying for professional schools now :) I also did a backpacking trip with my friend to Europe and it was eye-opening and definitely a memorable one. I just had my birthday recently and I made a conscious decision to not criticize every single part of myself anymore, and just be kind and gentle and hopefully, be comfortable in my own skin soon. I don’t know if I can make it, but I will try my best to appreciate everything that I am.

    Will the Man Myth help with this? I am wondering about that because I don’t necessarily want to just do it for attracting a guy (although that would be nice), but I just want to be a high-value, and learn to love myself more this year.

    Thanks for your input, and have a wonderful holiday with friends and family!

    • gettheguy says:

      Hi Ela,

      We have something come out mid next year that I think is going to be perfect for you. Keep checking back! x

  45. Megan says:

    Hey, glad to hear your year has been successful and that the next one seems to be gearing up to be even better. I have learned this year that being happy is a choice. There are things in life you can change and things you cant, and days will come along that bring you down. But I have finally learned to look at my life and see all the good things, the important things. There were some very hard lessons along the way at the beginning of this year, but because of those things and the people who came into (and in some cases out of) my life I have begun to enjoy life on a daily basis, instead of thinking that when I reach a milestone I will be happy. My life isnt exactly where I wanted or thought it would be, but that seems to matter less and less. I get happy when I hear a good song on the radio, I get happy when someone says something nice to me, I get happy when I can sit down and enjoy a cup of tea and my fav tv show, I get happy when I am faced with new opportunities… these are all things that previously would have added stress to my life or passed me by without me even noticing them. Its strange but I feel like I’ve been driving along staring at the road 3 ft in front of me until now, and now I see the miles and miles ahead of me, all the side roads, and little pit stops. And now I can truly say, I am happy about being happy…

  46. Jackie says:

    How can I work for you in LA?

  47. Nicki says:

    Thanks for everything you’ve taught not only myself, but women all over the world, Matt! I really appreciate the advice and tips you give, and I alway use them whenever I get the chance. You’ve not only hepled me to believe in myself, but also to have more confidence when it comes to guys in particular. This year, thanks to your advice, I got a scholarship to a school that seems perfect for me, I was so proud and I am so excited to start there next year! So thanks Matt, for teaching me to love life, take risks and make the most of every opportunity that comes my way…here’s to a fantastic 2013!
    Nicki xx

  48. Leila says:


    How are you doing? I had a very fantastic year, in terms of changing my self and taking risk. I kept taking risks and meeting new people, going out and have fun, although non of of them lead to a relationship or anything long term but it helped me to get to know myself better and get more self confident. People start noticing me, I see lots of head turn around and look at me not because I am beautiful but because my self confidence has grown.
    I have been following your weblogs, videos and your emails for more than a year now and I have to say that all helped me a lot in improving the way that I look at people and relationships.
    Many thanks
    You are amazing!

  49. C says:

    Matt, I know your energy these days is predominantly focused on GTG but I was wondering if you have any plans to bring out more content on non-romance related topics via your own website matthewhussey.com? There are a lot of us girls who need help in other areas of our lives and I’ve loved watching your confidence seminars on YouTube like “The Psychology of Entrepreneurship”, I know that was part of the coaching you did for men but it’s also applicable to women who feel we need to achieve more goals (I did mention this in an email to you).

    I think you mentioned your retreats cover areas like self-confidence and careers but for those of us who are unable to come to the retreats it would be good to have an online programme for this if there’s enough demand out there.

    Don’t get me wrong, I love GetTheGuy but personally I could do with guidance in other aspects of my life!

  50. Rebecca says:

    Your techniques have been helpful in making me come out of my shell. I have noticed the little things guys do not only for myself but it has also been helpful towards my friends. I haven’t completely gotten into the dating scene as of yet but I think your tips will benefit me in the future.

  51. Kate says:

    Hey Matt!

    First of all I want to say thank you!
    You inject a little positivity everytime I watch your videos or read your blog.

    So far I thought I had a crappy year, my relationships didn’t turn out well (all those negative blah-blah-blahs) :):) but actually I achieved so many things.

    I left my old university for a new one, which really suites my personality. I felt really proud when I made this move. I also ended a friend with benefits kinda-thing and decided to meet new guys, who would really appreciate me… and not only my body.
    I made this move recently so I still feel a bit depressed(it’s crazy right?) but I’m sure things will turn out better.
    I got hired at record label and I love my job. I met so many inspirational people recently.

    I learnt that anything is possible if I really go for it.

    Thanks again! Have a great christmas :)


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